How my Fibromyalgia started and the evolution of research

Posted by daliea @daliea, Apr 9, 2022

 I am seventy two was diagnosed about forty years ago and up until two years ago I was able to smile and pretend I was fine most of the time.Then I got a virus which was bad enough to go to the emergency room.Gradually I started with tingling and drenching sweats,electric shock pain-basically I now have body pain and burning from the bottoms of my feet to the hair on my head.It’s the body from hell. I have to laugh when the doctor asks if I am depressed.Fibromyalgia is not nice,.Thank God that research is being done so that possibly my grandchildren may fair better with new treatments.

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@mardi123

Hi fellow sufferer, or rather fellow 'fibrite' desperately coping day to day. I've had this inherited disease all my 67 years but was only diagnosed about 8 years ago, because it was so poorly understood. Doctors are only now beginning to comprehend the complicated "syndrome of symptoms" involved. Each of us has a collection of symptoms unique to us, but we can compare notes and find out what helps us get through the day. I would first get a doctor who understands the disease and is willing to learn more about what helps you live a better life. Your health care team should also include supportive friends and family (or a support group); massage, if affordable; nutrition advice; and pain management, among others. Searching websites will give you more good information and more first hand stories with good helping hints to bring to your doctor. Don't stop trying to achieve your best life.

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Thank you for confirming! I was born with fibro and I know my dad had it too but back then that diagnosis didn’t even exist. When I was younger my doctor dismissed it as ‘growing pains’ and I wasn’t diagnosed until my 20s. I am 67 and have coped all my life but now have chronic back pain that debilitates me, but the surgeons say my back is no worse than anyone else my age and attribute my pain to fibro. All I can get are the occasional back injections but that is not enough. I am hoping a string treatment will be discovered soon.

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@lwmarcrum

If by any chance you’re going to the Jacksonville FL Mayo location, I highly recommend Dr Anushka Irani (rheumatologist who specializes in fibromyalgia) and Dr Barbara Ruff (pain psychologist who runs a 2-day workshop on managing fibromyalgia).

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I’d be interested is what exactly they can do for you? Not being sarcastic, just haven’t heard of anyone getting a goodly amount of relief unless maybe on actual pain meds.

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@pollyperf

I’d be interested is what exactly they can do for you? Not being sarcastic, just haven’t heard of anyone getting a goodly amount of relief unless maybe on actual pain meds.

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They can perform tons of tests to rule out everything else, discuss different pain med options with you, and then the 2-day class focuses on non-pain med options.

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@lwmarcrum

They can perform tons of tests to rule out everything else, discuss different pain med options with you, and then the 2-day class focuses on non-pain med options.

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Had tons of tests, attended class, tried most everything doctors wanted me to try and cough tolerate any and live a normal life. I was in a Naltrexone study at Stanford 16 years ago and it did exactly opposite for me than what it was suppose to do. 25 years now and just work closely with my doctor who gives me actual pain meds to use ONLY WHEN ABSOLUTELY NEEDED. Everyone is different and hope something works for you.

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I was gaslit by Drs and even certain family members for decades. My symptoms were all over the place and none of it made sense to my Drs 25 yrs ago. After 3 failed ankle fusions 12 yrs ago my ortho suggested I do genetic testing, especially since I'm adopted. I was diagnosed with Erles Danlos Syndrome. I was diagnosed with Sjorgens syndrome (13 yrs ago) I also have the MTHFR gene which adds to the party. I was diagnosed 6 yrs ago with St4 NH Lymphoma. After 2 years of chemo, radiation and immunotherapy i am now in remission🙏🏼❣️But, It wrecked what was left of my immune system and I now can add peripheral neuropathy, Fibro, and RA. My daughter is 31 and is having the same symptoms I have so she is being tested for a host of genetic conditions and other immune issues. She has Fibro. Hopefully, she won't struggle with these invisible illnesses like I did and we can keep an eye on the grandkids. My son is a Dr. and he recently told me there is a direct connection between Sjorgens syndrome and Lymphoma. When he has diagnosed someone with Sjorgens he automatically orders a cancer panel. I trying to find a new normal also. I've had to admit I will never work again as a chef in a commercial kitchen. I'm grieving the loss as we speak. I'm applying for disability and handicap plates. I'm learning to pace myself because if I don't I will regret it later. I'm just blessed to be here everyday, I have 5 awesome grandkids I adore. I try to laugh everyday because it is the best medicine and count my blessings. I've started PT for my balance which includes swimming. I have a great therapist and I totally agree with the spoon method. Basically, you start your day with X number of spoons. Each activity will need a certain amount of spoons. When you get low on spoons at some point, you slow it down. That's when I will try some self care. A face mask, a cup of tea and a treat, any small way to appreciate the fact that you got through your day!❣️

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