How can I keep myself upright while sleeping?

Posted by cjj2 @cjj2, Feb 1 9:38am

Seems like this would be a simple thing to do, but even with a wedge pillow I seem to slide down. Reflux wakes me up. I stop eating 4 hours before bedtime, but continue to drink water. I had an Ivor Lewis esophagectomy 4 years ago. For the past few months, I have had an irritated feeling in my throat & a dry cough. More recently, I have had occasional problems swallowing liquids - seems to go down the wrong way & sets off violent coughing. I’m worried about aspirating, but that’s another issue.
Any ideas for better upright sleeping?

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We all tend to slide down at night... to get more flat... and to roll to one side or another. Although I can comfortably do this now (I no longer sleep elevated), this certainly was not true my first 12 to 18 months post-op.
But friction helps! Use a flannel fitted sheet and wear flannel or textured pajama bottoms... this will prevent you from sliding anywhere... it's like wearing velcro!
And lock yourself in with long side pillows wedged against you.

Also... if you're having nasty reflux... maybe try the opposite of our normal bedtime prep rules. Go ahead and still take a swig of Gaviscon Advance at bedtime... but after that... go ahead and eat a bagel or something voluminous... right at bedtime! This will top off your stomach and keep it busy... the acid (or bile) won't so easily escape and come up at 3 am. Anyway... worth a shot.

Gary,
Southern California

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@mrgvw I had esophageal cancer but I am now cured. I have fought aspirations for a long time and have them under control now. Few suggestions..
DO NOT EAT ANYTHING AFTER DINNER. In fact, eat 2 hours BEFORE going to bed. Take 2 Gaviscon right after eating dinner. Take 1 more when you go to bed. I use a wedge pillow. Your stomach takes 2 hours to empty so don't eat anything. Don't eat anything with spices! Chocolate is ok but in small portions early in the day. You will eventually learn what not to eat.

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@mrgvw I had esophageal cancer but I am now cured. I have fought aspirations for a long time and have them under control now. Few suggestions..
DO NOT EAT ANYTHING AFTER DINNER. In fact, eat 2 hours BEFORE going to bed. Take 2 Gaviscon right after eating dinner. Take 1 more when you go to bed. I use a wedge pillow. Your stomach takes 2 hours to empty so don't eat anything. Don't eat anything with spices! Chocolate is ok but in small portions early in the day. You will eventually learn what not to eat.

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@doglover888
Thanks for the tips! My dr. has me taking omeprazole & famotidine twice a day to help control acid. Gaviscon keeps being mentioned as a helpful thing, so I’ll ask the dr. if I can include that, too.

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I was diagnosed with stage four S. Gale cancer in 2019. I recently had my six your CAT scan and I am still showing no sign of reoccurrence. The thing that was a game changer for me and staying elevated at night was purchasing 4 inch memory foam mattress, topper, in addition to my wedge and extra pillows. I just sit on my bed for about a minute before I lay back, and I have had no problem sliding down. I did find myself still rolling off during the night, and I have stopped that by making sure I’m always hugging a pillow. I truly hope that this will work for you.

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Hi
I’ve commented a couple times on this site about the “Super Slant full length bed wedge” Amazon $189.
They come in 1/2 a queen or king.
I tried 3 different 3 foot short wedges. They created more problems than they solved. Always sliding down (injured my neck once) you can only lay on your back, uncomfortable at the hips.
I also have a recliner and an adjustable bed, but prefer this for sleeping. I sleep through the night on my side.
It’s very comfortable. Best thing I’ve found. There are a couple other items on Amazon that can be used along with this if you need for more height. Full length wedge is the way to go.

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I was diagnosed with stage four S. Gale cancer in 2019. I recently had my six your CAT scan and I am still showing no sign of reoccurrence. The thing that was a game changer for me and staying elevated at night was purchasing 4 inch memory foam mattress, topper, in addition to my wedge and extra pillows. I just sit on my bed for about a minute before I lay back, and I have had no problem sliding down. I did find myself still rolling off during the night, and I have stopped that by making sure I’m always hugging a pillow. I truly hope that this will work for you.

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@lleigh
Hi!
Thanks for your message.
Do you place your wedge pillow underneath the memory foam mattress topper?
Thanks,
CJ

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Hi
I’ve commented a couple times on this site about the “Super Slant full length bed wedge” Amazon $189.
They come in 1/2 a queen or king.
I tried 3 different 3 foot short wedges. They created more problems than they solved. Always sliding down (injured my neck once) you can only lay on your back, uncomfortable at the hips.
I also have a recliner and an adjustable bed, but prefer this for sleeping. I sleep through the night on my side.
It’s very comfortable. Best thing I’ve found. There are a couple other items on Amazon that can be used along with this if you need for more height. Full length wedge is the way to go.

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@brianpj12
Hi, Brian,
The full length bed wedge sounds good. Thanks for giving the exact name to look for on Amazon. I will check it out.
CJ

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@lleigh
Hi!
Thanks for your message.
Do you place your wedge pillow underneath the memory foam mattress topper?
Thanks,
CJ

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@cjj2 I have my wedge on top of my memory foam topper. My pillows are also memory foam. Hopefully this will help. Best wishes.
Lori

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It may not be the best sleep but I needed to sleep in a recliner.

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@brianpj12
Hi, Brian,
The full length bed wedge sounds good. Thanks for giving the exact name to look for on Amazon. I will check it out.
CJ

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@cjj2
Hi CJ.

I was apprehensive at first when I purchased it. But it’s exceeded my expectations. I find it very comfortable. When I first purchased it I placed a couple pillows under it to raise my head.
I even roll it up and take it on vacation. If you do purchase one I’d be curious to know if it works out for you?

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