For All Who are Grumpy, Whining, Regretting, etc.....

Posted by edsutton @edsutton, Aug 6 7:02am

Spend two minutes with this thought:

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@capnjack I have found that it has been a lot easier to fix my physical health by eating right and exercising than my mental health.

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@narus Not completely true as I have also made significant progress reversing my cognitive decline and improving my memory.

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For most of my life I've been trying to improve my brain functions.
It doesn't seem much different in my later 70s.
I'm still trying.

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@narus Not completely true as I have also made significant progress reversing my cognitive decline and improving my memory.

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@narus
How about sharing what has helped?

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I'm always trying to make good use of my time and energy and there's a lot of room for me to do better, but I enjoy trying.

I don't feel there's much need to compare myself to myself of times past, or to others. That can be a waste of energy. This is a good place to practice forgiveness!

I usually know what it feels like when I'm trying well, difficult enough that I might learn to do better, not so hard that I'll frustrate and injure myself. That's enough to give me some satisfaction in my use of the moment.

And a sense that maybe I'm still growing and learning, doing a better job of using whatever neurons I have left. Every time you use a neuron, you increase it's chances of surviving!

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@narus
How about sharing what has helped?

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@esikora I would be happy to hopefully I do not get in trouble for sharing non FDA approved medicine.

No Alcohol or recreationally drugs
N-Acetyl Semax
N-Acetyl Selank
NAD+
Creatine
And the hard part is mental exercise think, read, do crosswords. Am I smarter? Not sure but my focus and memory are better and I am calmer. I am not a doctor and not recommending people do the same but has helped me.

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I use as my mantra, "Treat yourself like a beloved friend." Thank you, David Burns from Feeling Good. My therapist had me read it. Helped me get through it. That book changed my life.

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Pablo Casals, was asked why, in his nineties, did he continue to practice cello every day.
He replied: "Because I believe I'm making progress."

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Pablo Casals, was asked why, in his nineties, did he continue to practice cello every day.
He replied: "Because I believe I'm making progress."

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@edsutton That's why I keep painting!😁

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@edsutton That's why I keep painting!😁

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@sueinmn
It's very fortunate to have something in our lives that always inspires us to give our best.

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