CLL caregiver; spouse with bvFTD

He thinks he's fine. We're in our early 70s. The bvFTD runs in his family. I waited my whole life and married at age 66. Almost immediately he started getting mean to me. In fact he was already suffering from it when we met. We were to sell both houses & get a place together. Mine got sold. His needed renovation in 1999 its dangerous with broken glass in the windows. We have my $ to move. Mr Demented says no. He's too functional. I decided no treatment for my CLL because I cannot do this.