Bladder Cancer Group: Introduce yourself and connect with others

Welcome to the Bladder Cancer support group on Mayo Clinic Connect.

This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with bladder cancer or caring for someone with bladder cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

Feel free to browse the topics, use the group search to find answers to your questions or start a new discussion.

Pull up a chair. Let’s start with introductions.

What type of bladder cancer were you diagnosed with? What treatments have you had? How are you doing?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Bladder Cancer Support Group.

@ijw1950

Hi,
My name is Irene & my husband had a procedure to
check a 2 cmm tumor for bladder cancer. I talked to
the dr. after the procedure & she says it looked like
cancer, but will have to wait until the pathology report.
Very nervous, I am having trouble waiting for the results

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Hi Irene
Try to stay positive. I'll keep you and your husband in my prayers.

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Hello. We found my 81 year old mother has bladder cancer this week.
It is:
Papillary
Noninvasive
Low grade
Stage 1
Uninvolved
The tumors were 1 superficial & 1 deep but did not enter the muscle.
They think they got all of it but since it was over 3mm they are going to use immunotherapy with BCG.
Mom is having some physical discomfort in her abdomen but the bigger issue is that she is so freaked out she is disassociating which makes it difficult for her to retain information about her condition & what she should be doing. I’ve been trying to help her learn to calm down with breathing - working towards meditation etc. but I don’t live close.
questions:
Has there been anything that you/yours have found to be helpful to decrease side effects or increase comfort throughout this process?
Have you found a guide for eating to:
Know which foods are best to consume/avoid for people dealing with bladder cancer? To boost health & decrease possible recurrence?
Thank you for your time & I’m sorry for whatever scenario landed you in this spot.

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@ijw1950

Hi,
My name is Irene & my husband had a procedure to
check a 2 cmm tumor for bladder cancer. I talked to
the dr. after the procedure & she says it looked like
cancer, but will have to wait until the pathology report.
Very nervous, I am having trouble waiting for the results

I

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Hi Irene,
Anytime we hear cancer it flips the freak out switch in our brains.
If your dr couldn’t tell, that makes me think that the cells must look similar to healthy cells. From what I’ve read so far (not a lot but good sources) that could put him in the low grade range. The more the cells change from their original form the higher the grade. So if they are cancerous, it may be the less concerning form.
Were there other words they used to describe it? Did you get a report or after visit summary?
If you meditate or do yoga, now would be a good time to start using some of the relaxation techniques for yourself & your husband. The waiting is horrible. You could pick a good comedy to help pass the time. I was surprised at how much I liked Shrinking on Apple, Schitts Creek on Netflix, Ted Lasso was also surprisingly good. I loved The Night Manager - a sort of Bond style limited series on Prime.
Write everything down including your questions so you have your info together -> mitigate stress.
Best, Heather

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@fmfran

Hi Irene
Try to stay positive. I'll keep you and your husband in my prayers.

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We have to see the dr. 4/22 to
hear the pathology report.
The dr. just said it looks like
bladder cancer, don’t know if the
Dr. scraped all of the tumor.
She seemed to be in a rush.
Also my husband goes to the VA
in West Haven, Ct.
So many comments to learn from & understand.

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@hlr

Hello. We found my 81 year old mother has bladder cancer this week.
It is:
Papillary
Noninvasive
Low grade
Stage 1
Uninvolved
The tumors were 1 superficial & 1 deep but did not enter the muscle.
They think they got all of it but since it was over 3mm they are going to use immunotherapy with BCG.
Mom is having some physical discomfort in her abdomen but the bigger issue is that she is so freaked out she is disassociating which makes it difficult for her to retain information about her condition & what she should be doing. I’ve been trying to help her learn to calm down with breathing - working towards meditation etc. but I don’t live close.
questions:
Has there been anything that you/yours have found to be helpful to decrease side effects or increase comfort throughout this process?
Have you found a guide for eating to:
Know which foods are best to consume/avoid for people dealing with bladder cancer? To boost health & decrease possible recurrence?
Thank you for your time & I’m sorry for whatever scenario landed you in this spot.

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So sorry to hear about your mother's diagnosis and anxiety. I began BCG treatments last Monday. Insertion and removal of the catheter were briefly uncomfortable, but insertion of the small amount of BCG involved no discomfort. I'm incontinent, so needed to remain in the treatment room for an hour. A pillow, warm blanket and a tv remote made the hour speed by. After treatment, I had a slight burning sensation during urination for two days, a tiny amount of blood in my urine, but none of the potential side effects noted in the literature. Prior to treatment, I had anxiety; after all it's unfamiliar territory. But there's no need for exceptional anxiety. I do have a supportive wife, family and friends, many of whom prayed for me. If you understand that professionals implementing your care are highly trained, capable, kind and experienced, it helps moderate anxiety. But there's no substitute for prayer because you need God's help for healing. I'm 84 years old with an aggressive form of bladder cancer. With BCG treatments planned for the next five weeks, I've been wondering if I'd be able to play golf now that the weather is moderating here in Minnesota. Well, my first BCG is behind me with no side effects. So I'm planning to make a tee time next week. For that I'm grateful to Mayo Clinic for professional help. I'm certain God will eliminate the cancer if that's what He has in mind for me. But I know God will walk with me either way. My bottom line recommendation: Pray for your mom, but also seek help from family or friends who may be able to provide on-site support to help her through this unfamiliar valley and ease her anxiety. I'm not a physician, but my doctor tells me he is confident my aggressive bladder cancer can be controlled with non-surgical measures. BCG may be all that's needed. From your description of your mother's diagnosis, I suspect my doctor would pass along to her the same prediction.

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I wouldn’t be overly concerned. Even if it’s cancer there are many very effective treatments and success rate for treating early stage is very high.

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@fmfran

Hi Irene
Try to stay positive. I'll keep you and your husband in my prayers.

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Thank you so much.
The waiting is really doing me in.

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@buena

So sorry to hear about your mother's diagnosis and anxiety. I began BCG treatments last Monday. Insertion and removal of the catheter were briefly uncomfortable, but insertion of the small amount of BCG involved no discomfort. I'm incontinent, so needed to remain in the treatment room for an hour. A pillow, warm blanket and a tv remote made the hour speed by. After treatment, I had a slight burning sensation during urination for two days, a tiny amount of blood in my urine, but none of the potential side effects noted in the literature. Prior to treatment, I had anxiety; after all it's unfamiliar territory. But there's no need for exceptional anxiety. I do have a supportive wife, family and friends, many of whom prayed for me. If you understand that professionals implementing your care are highly trained, capable, kind and experienced, it helps moderate anxiety. But there's no substitute for prayer because you need God's help for healing. I'm 84 years old with an aggressive form of bladder cancer. With BCG treatments planned for the next five weeks, I've been wondering if I'd be able to play golf now that the weather is moderating here in Minnesota. Well, my first BCG is behind me with no side effects. So I'm planning to make a tee time next week. For that I'm grateful to Mayo Clinic for professional help. I'm certain God will eliminate the cancer if that's what He has in mind for me. But I know God will walk with me either way. My bottom line recommendation: Pray for your mom, but also seek help from family or friends who may be able to provide on-site support to help her through this unfamiliar valley and ease her anxiety. I'm not a physician, but my doctor tells me he is confident my aggressive bladder cancer can be controlled with non-surgical measures. BCG may be all that's needed. From your description of your mother's diagnosis, I suspect my doctor would pass along to her the same prediction.

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Your words are extremely comforting, the anxiety is sometimes overwhelming. I am lucky, as you are, to have an incredible wife. I pray day and night and have complete trust in God. I leave it in Gods hands. I have a great doctor and had a fantastic visit at the Mayo Clinic in Florida that affirmed my care is in excellent hands. BCG starts Wednesday. May the Lord be with us always.
Thanks
Fran

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@tom26

Hi all,

I am new to the group and wish I had known about this 7 years ago. I am an avid biker and after a long bike ride back in 2018, I saw blood in my urine. The local urologist I went to said he saw a tumor in my bladder. I was shocked as this does not run in family and am very healthy.
The surgeon removed the tumor which was a high grade but had not gotten into the bladder wall. I can thank the lord that it was detected early. Another month and it could have been a different recovery. I started BCG treatments for the next few months and made it through 90% until my body started to reject them.
Bladder was monitored via cystoscopy over the next 7 years, every 3 months , then 6 months and last 2 years it was yearly, all negative. It was starting to feel like I had gotten past this and my dr felt the same.
However, this last month, the scope revealed a small growth on the back wall of my bladder. After 7 years!!!
The surgery was yesterday and we are waiting on the pathology report to determine the next steps, bCG or other immunotherapy.
I wonder if there are any case studies or data to support using bCG as a preventive. The prior year, the scope was clean.
Has anyone had similar experiences?

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Hi @tom26, how is recovery from surgery going? Have you had a follow up with the oncologist to decide on the next steps re BCG or other immunotherapy?

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@ronzee50

Hi. My name is Ron. I was diagnosed with invasive, high grade, cancer in my right utterer 9 months ago. It became high grade bladder cancer before I could have it removed. I have had Turbt surgery to remove as much of the cancer as possible. After that, I had 4 rounds of chemo in preparation for a radical cystectomy. That is scheduled for May 8th.

Luckily, the original cancer was found totally by accident. So, I’m hoping to be cancer free after my surgery. I plan on having an ileal conduit with a stoma.

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Welcome, @ronzee50. You may also wish to follow the ostomy group as you prepare for surgery and an ileal conduit with a stoma.

- Ostomy Support Group https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/ostomy/

You may also appreciate this discussion:
- Radical Cystectomy: Would like to hear the experiences of others
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/radical-cystectomy/

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