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Assisted-living, memory care: How did you find a good facility?
I am looking for an Assisted-living, and Memory Care facility for myself.
I have early-mid Alzheimer’s dementia diagnosed by MRI, MRA, PET, EEG, and psycho Neuro test.
More than 3 years ago, I was diagnosed with Mild Cognitive Impairment. I’m telling you all this because people frustrate me when they say things like, ‘you sound and look normal’…
Anyway, to those of you who have found a good place for your loved one, how did you start looking for a place. How did you decide where they would do well.
Cost is a huge factor! I need a Medicaid accepted place after my funds run out. It seems those are the least appealing…
Any help is appreciated.
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One thing I will add is that me and my family always feared assisted living. It was an abhorrent thought, particularly because of news reports of the horrible conditions. BUT we were totally wrong, at least with all the facilities we visited. They are like vacation resorts! The residential places are like having your friends at your house over a long holiday with butler and maid service!
I can onlt tell you what I saw when I visited my Dad. I live in another state. I did tge clean test( smell, how the room is set up, ate with my Dad. The dining room was clean..but the food was bland) , I interacted with the staff to see if they were kind, considerate and knowlegable about what they do) Spoke with the RN in charge. I hope that helps.