Are any other seniors experiencing a need to cry more often?

Posted by littleoaksc52 @littleoaksc52, Jun 11, 2023

I'm 71 and have started crying "at the drop of a hat." Hearing the news or watching the worst of the human condition unfold in a movie usually triggers it. And once I get started, it's hard to stop.

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I admire everyone's honesty. It's refreshing that people can be who they are and state what and how they feel. We've come along way, we have earned that right!!

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I want to say that I am not a medical professional. Three things that I am aware of can cause emotional disruptions: 1) Reflecting over life regrets; 2) depression (including chemical depressions related to age); and 3) age- and health-related changes in hormones. Age-related hormone imbalances and changes in brain chemistry may be overlooked in the general run of everyday medical practices.

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in reply @littleoaksc52 I confess I am a typical "sensitive artist" and cry at the drop of a hat, more so since receiving a recent diagnosis and making the decision not to be a caregiver anymore to my demented friend. I do not see crying as a weakness, but rather as a "cleansing" if you will. Sometimes I get tearful just walking out the door. It is not a bad thing at all, in my opinion. People often tell me, "you are too sensitive," but that is just a part of my personality. Truth be told, I have a lot to cry about, but this does not mean I am feeling a sense of self pity, but rather finally learning to have compassion for myself, which took until age 62 to acquire.

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Me too. The news politics hateful rhetoric poverty blaming others causes fear and anger with me. Underneath this is pain grief loss etc. I cry too. I have to set boundaries with myself and others. Not only is it unsafe but just toxic our society has descended into this.

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I do. The hatred anger etc poltical environment etc.

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