Activity for elderly to engage the mind

Posted by Bill @bilton, Aug 31, 2019

My father is 88 yrs old. He has limited mobility and some time gets a little confused. We live in a small town with limited resources or activities. He is mainly at home and watches TV most of the day. His doctor suggested he find some activities he can do during the day to keep his mind engaged, such as chess, checkers, games, puzzles, ect. I know he can't play chess and since he is at home most of the time limited social contact. Does anyone has and age appropriate suggestions, ideas,website, resources or activities he can do ?

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@bilton
My friend, before she passed and I regularly played Scrabble, Canasta, Gin & 500 Rummy. We enjoyed short jaunts too.
I’m not sure of Dads physical or mental abilities or even his interest but I always enjoy talking to older people who have lived through so much history and have so many interesting stories. Would he like to interact with children? Maybe he could help at schools or talk to neighborhood kids. My Dad was a Quadriplegic and outside a lot and kids were always around asking every imaginable question. You know how uninhibited children are. That interaction was good for all of them.
Does he read? Maybe he’d like to go to the library occasionally. Do you think he’d be interested joining Connect? You could teach him the ropes in no time. If I can learn, anyone can learn.
Jake

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Thanks for the ideas , I will have to try some of the games, he doesn’t really get out much or do much reading

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@debbraw, I'd like to invite you to join this discussion. You posted some great ideas in another discussion about activities to help loved ones stay active and involved. Would you mind reposting it here?

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@colleenyoung

@debbraw, I'd like to invite you to join this discussion. You posted some great ideas in another discussion about activities to help loved ones stay active and involved. Would you mind reposting it here?

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@colleenyoung I have the post from @debbraw which I was going to make less specific to Florida and then post it to this site. I thought I could start a new discussion with it. OK?

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@becsbuddy

@colleenyoung I have the post from @debbraw which I was going to make less specific to Florida and then post it to this site. I thought I could start a new discussion with it. OK?

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You bet.

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@colleenyoung

@debbraw, I'd like to invite you to join this discussion. You posted some great ideas in another discussion about activities to help loved ones stay active and involved. Would you mind reposting it here?

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@colleenyoung - I'm happy to share the list I posted here. As Becky points out, it's focused on our little town in FL and I can't wait to see how she refines it to make it less geographically specific. Meantime, here is a first cut - a compilation of ideas from my Caregiver's Support Group. Hope it can help others...

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@debbraw

@colleenyoung - I'm happy to share the list I posted here. As Becky points out, it's focused on our little town in FL and I can't wait to see how she refines it to make it less geographically specific. Meantime, here is a first cut - a compilation of ideas from my Caregiver's Support Group. Hope it can help others...

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@debbraw Even though the list is locality-specific, it is a great jump-off point for anyone! It really helps us to think outside of what we might consider. We may even add to it, here. Thanks for sharing!
Ginger

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@gingerw - I hope others do add to it here. I'm going to keep an eye because some days I need all the help I can get! I added a few more things on another thread, but I'll include them here too: If my husband has meaningful chores, it's a huge boost. For him, raking leaves, blowing leaves off the driveway, watering plants, and weeding the garden are great activities – and they really help out. He also takes out the trash – including regular trash on Tuesday, yard waste on Wednesday and recycling on Friday. All the cans are labeled with the contents and the day of the week so its not confusing. He also carries in the groceries when I shop and helps me put them away (it refreshes his memory about where things go and helps me see where they are actually being stored!) A few other fun things we do: taking a walk together, working on a simple jigsaw puzzle, and going through old photographs to "organize" and reminisce.

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@bilton

Thanks for the ideas , I will have to try some of the games, he doesn’t really get out much or do much reading

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@bilton For games I do search a words in book form also there is a numbers also Most stores have these types of little paperback books to work with and they are easy on the hands to hold Exercise of some kind using bands or weights but light ones.

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In rehab after his stroke, they gave my father-in-law an adult coloring book and some colored pencils. It is good for both cognitive and motor skills, so that might be an option if he would be interested. It is tough with some people to figure out what would interest them if they didn't really have interests of this kind before.

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I came across a web site http://www.portraitpuzzles.com that I used to provide activities for my husband who has bvFDT. I took pictures of things that are important in his life and downloaded them to this web site and they make really great puzzles out of them and they arrived in just a few days and are not costly at all. There a multiple choices. I chose the 30 piece puzzle; the pieces are large; about 4" inches over all. Once he gets done playing with them I intend to glue them to a sturdy background board that I purchased at Wal-Mart and hang them on the wall in his room at the care facility he lives in. They will be his Christmas gifts.

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