I know how hard that is. I think I just reached the understanding with my mother that at 87 she feels it's all she has left that she can do that enjoys , her appetite it poor but for sugary foods. Fortunately she doesn't have diabetes, and has stopped all carbonated drinks, but feels that at 87 she should be able to enjoy something in her life! I'm just not willing anymore to fight too much against that. She has a point. And her tests are stable ... sooo?! It is what it is.