Vaginal Atrophy

Posted by daisysocal @daisysocal, Sep 27, 2022

Seems like vaginal atrophy is a taboo topic, yet so many women are suffering with this. I had breast cancer and was on anastrozole for 7 years. I’m not sure if my Intercourse pain is due to lack of estrogen from the estrogen blocker or from menopause or both. I have opened up about this with female acquaintances and have found there are so many women who suffer from this. It’s a subject so difficult to discuss with your husband, partner, doctors, etc. Many women have told me estrogen creams don’t work, Mona Lisa type treatments don’t help, and our sex lives are non-existent. I was a very sexual woman, wife, enjoyed sex so much. I am very active, attractive and fit at 60 years old. But quite honestly I feel almost worthless when it comes to being intimate. It’s really sad and I wish I could have normal sex again without feeling like I’m being stabbed by a knife, hiding my face crying, and swollen. In fact, I stopped having sex altogether about 2 years ago. It just really stinks.

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Thanks for your insight. My experience seems a bit different. I guess I don’t understand HRT definitionally, but I get enough estrogen to give me an increase in facial hair. I will hold off making changes until I see a new woman GYN since I am changing docs.

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@pb50

May I ask a likely elementary question? I had a hysterectomy at 38 and was not offered any HRT of any kind. At age 64, I developed a sticky, sour smelling discharge and learned it was vaginal atrophy sloughing off dead cells. The GYN prescribed a 10mg estradiol suppositoryi insert twice a week. And after quite a while that seemed to resolve it. After a few years I stopped the HRT. but recently I had to resume. So apparently the condition doesn’t get fixed… just managed.

So here’s my stupid question- would moisturizer do just as well? I’m reading about many of you using non hormonal moisturizer and am wondering if that’s an option for me. I am somewhat worried about HRT forever.

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I really wish the message these female Urologists are so passionate about could be more accessible. They seemed to say that the locally applied estrogen addresses the urinary issues that result from lack of estrogen. It was my understanding that it’s about more than moisturizing the tissue. I’ll need to research that more. I’m just learning about this.

And, that the local estrogen works to maintain that area, similar to when your own body produces it, so it’s a maintenance thing, not a cure, which you wouldn’t need but once. I don’t know if you are supposed to take HRT and local estrogen at the same time.

If I had known more about the local estrogen option earlier, I would have gotten it immediately upon menopause. I hope I’ve intervened in time so there isn’t any damage.

The Replense that I have tried is unscented. I haven’t gotten but one box (Has 6 individual applications.), because I didn’t see the need. After the Estradiol, everything seems plenty moist, but I guess it wouldn’t hurt. I was afraid being too moist might cause a yeast infection.

I suppose gynecologist are supposed to be experts on this, but I have seen several and they never informed me about menopause properly, options for treatment, expectations, etc. I never had any bad symptoms like hot flashes, night sweats, etc. And, I recently took my mom to see one and it was a big disappointment. I won’t go into it here. But, the urologists on you tube seem to be the ones advocating for women and their pelvic health.

I guess I’m super charged about this issue, because almost every woman I know who has gone through menopause has urinary issues! Usually, prolapse, incontinence, weak bladder, urgency, frequency, etc. I am shocked that I don’t! I’m not sure why. This is an issue that needs attention. Thank goodness for this site!

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@celia16

I really wish the message these female Urologists are so passionate about could be more accessible. They seemed to say that the locally applied estrogen addresses the urinary issues that result from lack of estrogen. It was my understanding that it’s about more than moisturizing the tissue. I’ll need to research that more. I’m just learning about this.

And, that the local estrogen works to maintain that area, similar to when your own body produces it, so it’s a maintenance thing, not a cure, which you wouldn’t need but once. I don’t know if you are supposed to take HRT and local estrogen at the same time.

If I had known more about the local estrogen option earlier, I would have gotten it immediately upon menopause. I hope I’ve intervened in time so there isn’t any damage.

The Replense that I have tried is unscented. I haven’t gotten but one box (Has 6 individual applications.), because I didn’t see the need. After the Estradiol, everything seems plenty moist, but I guess it wouldn’t hurt. I was afraid being too moist might cause a yeast infection.

I suppose gynecologist are supposed to be experts on this, but I have seen several and they never informed me about menopause properly, options for treatment, expectations, etc. I never had any bad symptoms like hot flashes, night sweats, etc. And, I recently took my mom to see one and it was a big disappointment. I won’t go into it here. But, the urologists on you tube seem to be the ones advocating for women and their pelvic health.

I guess I’m super charged about this issue, because almost every woman I know who has gone through menopause has urinary issues! Usually, prolapse, incontinence, weak bladder, urgency, frequency, etc. I am shocked that I don’t! I’m not sure why. This is an issue that needs attention. Thank goodness for this site!

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I don’t have material urinary issues - just old lady “give me a minute” syndrome 🙄

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@naturegirl5

@pb50. Pam, I figure it could be worth a try. Estradiol, by the way, isn’t considered HRT. The estrogen is “unopposed” by progesterone which could be considered a contraindication however the gynecologists I have talked with tell me that very little estrogen is absorbed by the blood stream since Estradiol is applied transdermally (to the skin). It’s a good question to ask the provider who prescribed your Estradiol. Still, why not try a non-estrogen product and see if you like the results.

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Coming back to say thanks Helen - it’s stunning how uninformed I am about hormones

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@pb50

Coming back to say thanks Helen - it’s stunning how uninformed I am about hormones

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@pb50. Pam, so are we all uninformed about hormones. This includes many of the primary care doctors I have seen locally. They place Estradiol in the same category as HRT and I only learned differently after talking with gynecologists, and the medical staff at Mayo in the Women’s Menopause and Sexual Health Department. It’s really terrible how we suffer as women because of some poor advice.

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@naturegirl5

@marjou I posted the link to Hyalo Gyn for a non-estrogen vaginal moisturizer above these posts. Another option is Good Clean Love. You can order online or go to a Target store as they carry this brand.

Good Clean Love
https://goodcleanlove.com/

Both of the above products are paraben-free and contain hyaluronic acid which is recommended by medical providers as a good vaginal moisuritizer.

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Thank you for info.

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@naturegirl5

@pb50. Pam, so are we all uninformed about hormones. This includes many of the primary care doctors I have seen locally. They place Estradiol in the same category as HRT and I only learned differently after talking with gynecologists, and the medical staff at Mayo in the Women’s Menopause and Sexual Health Department. It’s really terrible how we suffer as women because of some poor advice.

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I was fortunate to find a woman doc in Providence RI who had a specialty gyn/uro practice who told me what I had going on. The gyn in NYC had treated one vague infection after another and clearly had no idea what the issue was.

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@pb50

I don’t have material urinary issues - just old lady “give me a minute” syndrome 🙄

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I hear ya! Glad you’re ok.

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Great information. Was on antibiotics for 2 months and my Urogynecologist has not done any tests. Same thing happened last year. I have a prolapse as well. Finally doing bladder function test.
Currently looking for Dr at Mayo.

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@celia16

Did you see a physical therapist for the training? I’m not sure if I need the therapy, but would like an evaluation. Maybe, I’ll try the intercourse to see how it goes.

So glad you had good results with that therapy! My mom has had 2 surgeries for prolapse years ago. I have done kegel exercises before. I became concerned that I might be hypotonic, since I’m such an anxious person and discontinued them. Perhaps, I’ll resume them.

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Yes, I saw a physical therapist who trained me in the exercises I needed and how to do them. I noticed a difference within 3 weeks. (No undressing). She gave me printouts of the exercises. I leave them in plain sight as a reminder to do the exercises.

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