@tunared, oh Dan. I hear and feel your arghhhhh and I'm especially glad that you have Connect to come to just to write your frustrations. And thank goodness for a puppy who loves long walks, right?

I know I can't change anything. I also know you're doing the best given the circumstance and that you love your wife. But it's hard, especially when you are the sole person she relies on or trusts. Sending a listening ear whenever you need it.