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IMNSHO: The Top Ten Things NOT to say to a Caregiver
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I really appreciate this post. I had great difficulty with a couple of these questions. It is reassuring to know I am not the only one. People would ask, "How are you doing?" and I had a LOT of trouble with that one. Some of them really were not interested in how I was doing and I am not even sure why they asked. I learned to just gloss it over and say I was doing fine. It sure was difficult.
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@nrocpop and @dianaol, my latest answer is " I don't know". It helps and keeps them from asking more stupid questions. Having a family member going through cancer is TERRIBLE. Finish en klaar! (I am from South Africa) Kindness is so much better. Acknowledge our situation and rather ask, "What can I do for you?"
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That was a big lesson for me too "How are you doing?" I've also learned to smile brightly and say we're doing just fine. I empathize with you.
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