I am backing off from neighbor until I get more clarity. She asked me what my beliefs are. I was raised Lutheran Missouri Synod. Not a Lutheran Church close by (I probably won't go back to Lutheran.) She did invite me to her church. 10:30 Sundays. I lived amongst the Apache Nation in Arizona. Although I am a Christian, I have what some might look at as bizarre practices. I told her I consider myself spiritual thus open to learning different belief systems. That is where that conversation ended. Thank you very much as I need help with NC etiquette. I want to assimilate. I am not about changing anything here because NC is a beautiful state and I like the people. I look forward to exploring NC!