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Activities to do with your loved one: Share your tips

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@janet7 My mother had dementia plus Alzheimers. My dad took a walk alone each morning, to "set" his mind/day. Later, he would encourage her to go for a walk, even a short one, to say "hi" to anyone out, or to look at "pretties". She really liked meeting up with the neighborhood pets. For her, a schedule included different things on different days, based on what she was showing interest in. He didn't try to keep to a particular time frame except mealtimes, rather to keep the continuity of the activity itself. She eventually became mute, with a "lights are on but no one is home" expression. She stayed in their house until 2 weeks before her passing, when she no longer would take any nourishment.

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I agree that going for a short walk is very beneficial, no matter what time. I do notice that if I move something, he gets anxious, so I try to keep everything in the same place.
I do try to follow his lead, however, he easily gets off a schedule because he forgets about time. If he is enjoying what he is doing, I just let him enjoy until he is finished. So a schedule is not beneficial for us right now, but maybe in the future.