Welcome to Connect, @robinray55,

How frustrating it must be to have these symptoms!
I moved your message to this discussion in the ENT group, and I'd also like to connect you with other members talking about TMJ. Please meet @phoebejo, @starwitch, @catio, @ironman84, @fifi, @lauriedr, @pammyl66, @reader3013, @catio,@tatt00edraven, @sunset74, @lauren123.

I also hope @tallteri, @reg131 will return with some more insight for you regarding wearing a night guard.
In the meantime, here is some information from Mayo Clinic that you might interest you: http://mayocl.in/2m3eG1l

@robinray55, have your doctors suggested any tests to diagnose TMJ disorders? What do you do to get relief from the discomfort and pain?