I’m sorry you are going thru this what can I do to help?

Welcome @reine, please note that I removed your personal email address from your message. Mayo Clinic Connect is a public forum. For your privacy and security, we recommend not posting personal contact information on the forum. To contact someone directly, you can use the secure private messaging function.

But I also point out that by posting in the discussions, you will get help from many members. 🙂

Reine, may I ask what type of breast cancer you have? Do you know the type and stage? This can help with your decision-making and the discussions with your surgeon when deciding between lumpectomy vs mastectomy along with your personal preferences.

Me too

Oh Auntie Oakley! I feel much the same in that I am also afraid I will make
the wrong decision! Thank you so much for your message. Maureen