Good morning, @lag630 I am pleased you found some help in my post. I agree with you that the waiting can sometimes be worse than the knowing. At least once we know we can create our 'attack plan'.

As far as the future goes, you are right that while we may have each had visions of what we'd hoped our life would be like, nothing is promised in that area. I certainly never foresaw being a widower. All we can do is try our best to support our new lives as best we can. I often remind myself of the old saying 'the only thing certain is change'.

I will hope you do get a definitive diagnosis that helps you both! Do you have future doctors visits planned?

Strength, Courage, & Peace