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Celebrating without alcohol

Transplants | Last Active: Nov 29, 2022 | Replies (22)

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Hi Rosemary! This drinking conversation came at a good time for me, so thank you. As you may remember, I was pre-qualified for a double lung transplant. I am still not in bad enough shape to get 'listed' yet, but, the time is drawing near. My bloodwork revealed that I was an above average drinker (heavy drinker), and this shocked me into quitting altogether. I had never considered myself to be a heavy drinker because I did not drink myself into drunkeness. I was raised in the South where we had Happy Hour every night; just one glass of wine, sometimes two, or a one high-ball. I have found that my drinking just before dinnertime had changed from a social thing to a necessary thing for me as my disease worsened. I would be so exhausted by 5 pm that I could barely get through cooking dinner. A glass of wine would help to take the exhausted feeling away long enough for me to cook and clean up. My daughter's boyfriend is a wine rep, so he brings delicious wines to our house (which doesn't help). Anyway, I have quit the alcohol altogether recently. As for a substitute 'adult beverage', I am not interested. I was more into the beverage helping me to unwind or take the edge off of exhaustion; not for the flavor. I have now resigned myself that I now have limitations and my husband and daughter now have to pick up the slack. My beverage schedule was 2 cups of coffee in the morning, water all day, a glass (or two) of wine at 5. Now, it is just the coffee and water and occasional fruit juice. Sounds boring, but, beverages never excited me; only food!

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Terri, I want to commend you for acting upon the abnormal blood results.

I live in Central Kentucky surrounded by distilleries, in fact one is being developed right behind our neighborhood. The Bourbon Trail which is a big tourist draw with tours and tasting rooms goes thru town.
-Have you ever had a conversation with daughter's boyfriend about alcohol free wines? I am not suggesting for you, but as a source of education for him about the need for a population of non-drinkers like us? When I have inquired at several establishments, I feel like I am asking the impossible.