Welcome to Connect, @rith. Congratulations on 4 years of living and returning to a new normal after your transplant. Your story of a difficult pretransplant journey is familiar to me. (liver and kidney 2009) I want to thank you for sharing your memories and I commend you for your successful return to health.
It's a treat to be back to regular clothes, isn't it! I do remember a conversation that I heard where some transplant gals were discussing Spanx type of undergarments as their remedy for the abdominal bulge. I have not had much of a bulge, but I found them uncomfortable. There are some comfortable athletic bras on the market, too.

I used to need a daily nap. Now I find that if I am really active for a few days, that I know that I will need a nap to recover. In fact that's what I did yesterday afternoon! I treated myself after spending 4 days last week taking day hikes in the Great Smoky Mountains.
Ruth, have you discussed your tiredness with the transplant team? Sometimes meds or particular low lab result can be the culprit. I did need to take supplement iron for a few years.
How do you spend your days? What do you enjoy doing?