Chronic Pain members - Welcome, please introduce yourself

Posted by Kelsey Mohring @kelseydm, Apr 27, 2016

Welcome to the new Chronic Pain group.

I’m Kelsey and I’m the moderator of the group. I look forwarding to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.

Why not take a minute and introduce yourself.

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Chronic Pain Support Group.

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@lisette43 It sounds like you have a pretty good thing going for yourself and are checking a lot of the pain management plan boxes. Good for you! You are doing awesome overall. I understand being lonely and wanting more positive social interactions. My kids are grown, my husband and friends all work, and I work to keep myself as active mentally and physically as I can. You are blessed to have your faith, volunteer opportunities, 2 dogs, family, and a neighbor that holds you accountable to them (that one cracked me up - tee hee).

It's commendable that you recognize the need to pull back on volunteering for now. You come first before you can help anyone else. Push/crash cycles are not fun and generally not worth it either.

You mention that you will have your neuromodulator removed when the battery dies. How long have you used a neuromodulator? Why do you think it's time to remove it?

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I don't think the neuromodulator is helping me much. The Abbott Rep has been working with me recently to try to improve the function. For a while I felt like they insert these devices and then forget about you. Perhaps Abbott is trying to do better fu with the patients.

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I don't think the neuromodulator is helping me much. The Abbott Rep has been working with me recently to try to improve the function. For a while I felt like they insert these devices and then forget about you. Perhaps Abbott is trying to do better fu with the patients.

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@lisette43 I get that. Customer service is important. Will you keep me posted on how things go if you decide to have your neuromodulator removed?

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Where do I go to find any new additions to chronic pain section. Each day I receive an e mail , when I click on Chronic pain, all I see the same headings each day

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Where do I go to find any new additions to chronic pain section. Each day I receive an e mail , when I click on Chronic pain, all I see the same headings each day

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Hi Berge, Here is a link to the Chronic Pain group page with the list of all the discussion topics: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/pain/

They are listed in order of most recently active.

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Hi, I'm Donnahanford933. I've had chronic headaches and migraines since age 4. Fibromyalgia (FM) started right after the birth of my second child. I have several Autoimmune diseases and Spinal Degeneration.
I've recently acknowledged that I experienced trauma from the womb on. Am desperately looking for a therapist. Staying sane,, sorta 🤪, by reading Gabor Maté and watching his movie, The Wisdom Of Trauma. His book, When the Body says No" is fascinating! The last chapter explains areas of our lives to address in order to help heal ourselves. It has given me hope and a reason to want to live. I am NOT suicidal, however, daily life revolves around how my body is feeling and winter is unmitigated hell for me where the pain actually gets worse March through May.! I think that my severe allergies kick-in starting mid-February and my body has used all its "spoons" for the season. However, feelings aside for a minute, I am a very determined person & 'I will surthrive!'

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Hello Donna @donnahanford933, welcome. Thank you for sharing your story. It takes courage to acknowledge trauma. Good for you for taking that step. I like your determination, and admire that you practice self-help.

I find positive distraction to be the best medicine. What sort of things bring you positive distraction from chronic symptoms?

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Has anyone found relief/solution for abdominal scar tissue? I’ve had 16 hernia repairs and several other abdominal surgeries. Just seeking relief from chronic pain. I’m currently taking at least 5 hydrocodone per day. Thank you for any recommendations.

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Hi, my name is Warren. I have dry eye disease, whose cause has yet to be determined (after 6 years). I don't have pain in the sense of "hurt", but I do have it in the sense of irritation that is constant any time I have my eyes open. For that reason it seems I am more similar and sympathetic to people who have chronic pain than other types of disorders. People do not understand how it feels to constantly have sand in your eyes, or large foreign objects, and burning, and when one looks--there's nothing there! When I leave home or go outdoors, I find that wearing a snug-fitting pair of high-school chemistry lab goggles help keep my eyes from drying out so fast helps, but it is humiliating, and you should hear the comments some people make! I've said enough for now, but I am so glad to be part of this group. I hope I can help some of you. Thanks. Warren

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Warren, I also treat for dry eye. You must massage under your eyes. The Mibomian oil glands get clogged. They release oil to lubricate your eyes. Also, 2x day use eye heat pads that you warm in the microwave. Also, I use Restasis 2x days. All of this worked for me. Please try them. Mikayla

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My name is Anne and I am writing this for my 17 yr old son named Rene. He has been on a horrible journey with pain that has lasted four years and involves his digestion, pelvic floor, eyes, back head and legs. It started with extreme and constant gut pain. After seeing a gastroenterologist, and having numerous tests including blood, urine, endoscopy, and colonoscopy, he was diagnosed with IBS. After consulting with a dietician and following a FODMAP elimination and reintroduction diet he identified his intolerance to lactose and other foods that he avoids. This helps but did not eliminate his pain. after about a year he developed severe penis pain and urinary issues which were eventually diagnosed as pelvic floor disfunction. Months of PT with Pelvic health specialists enables him to control the pain minimally. About a year later he developed dry eye which was treated with gland plugs, Restasis and FML steroid drops, which left him with no more dry eye, but instead and unbearable stinging and burning sensation on the surface of his eyes. Unable to look at screens, go outdoors or basically be in any lighted situation. We then were referred to the Rheumatology team who put him through tests, but found nothing and sent him to neurology where they diagnosed ocular migraines. After MRI, DHE, Lumbar puncture and ketamine, they determined they could not help him He began to lose all hope of being healthy again. He had to quit college and come home. I got him connected with the comprehensive pain clinic here and they referred him to Dr Pedram Hamrah where he was diagnosed with Corneal Neuropathy . DR Hamrah referred Rene to another doctor and he is getting tested for small fiber neuropathy. In the meantime Rene continues to get worse and be in more pain that migrates throughout his body. He is hopeless most of the time and we are struggling to keep up spirits. I fear he may give up al together. Is there any kind of peer support group for young adults with chronic pain that you are aware of? Or one for SFN specifically?

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Hello Anne. I was wondering if you ever found a support group for young adults. My chronic pain journey has been very similar to your sons but only recently have I looked for support from others like me my age. I’m 20 this year but my pain started when I was 14. I was diagnosed with SFN in 2020 but recently my pain has been worse and it feels like I am starting all over again. My neurologist and I talk in two days to discuss more options but it’s difficult to be optimistic after all this time. It’s exhausting trying to keep up with my body and it’s demands.

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Hello Anne. I was wondering if you ever found a support group for young adults. My chronic pain journey has been very similar to your sons but only recently have I looked for support from others like me my age. I’m 20 this year but my pain started when I was 14. I was diagnosed with SFN in 2020 but recently my pain has been worse and it feels like I am starting all over again. My neurologist and I talk in two days to discuss more options but it’s difficult to be optimistic after all this time. It’s exhausting trying to keep up with my body and it’s demands.

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@11993scorpions2 Hey there, welcome! Thanks for joining the conversation. I know your message was to Anne, @duxbury, and I'm hoping she replies, but I wanted to let you know that she has not posted in over a year. I'm hoping she is out there and gets back to you, or someone else jumps in with experience similar to yours.

I know you came specifically seeking peer support so I'd like to invite my friend John @johnbishop who mentors in the SFN group. He might have a suggestion, or another member in mind to help you.

I am very sorry you have been experiencing chronic symptoms since age 14. I can relate to the exhaustion of trying to keep up with a challenging body and it's demands. I can also relate to the difficulty of finding optimism. Things get heavy, confusing, and frustrating. My weird "stuff" began in childhood and annoyingly stayed with me up until later in life (early 40's, I know that's wicked old to you) when I started being diagnosed with multiple conditions like SFN, and others, causing chronic pain.

You mention meeting with your neurologist soon to discuss more options. Are you comfortable sharing what has transpired thus far in your health journey regarding chronic pain and SFN?

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