Greetings. I live about 2000 miles from my grandchildren. It is my daughter-in-law that is jealous of my relationship with my grandchildren. She i controlling personality in general about everything. My only consolation is when I am with them (their other grandmother lives 5 minutes from them, lucky woman) they tell me I am their favorite. I know I am and when they are older some day I will be there physically as well as always there for all their needs because they will have a choice. Enjoy ur facetime with them. My son and his wife don't have time to set us up so I send letters.