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Caregivers | Last Active: Feb 16, 2022 | Replies (24)Comment receiving replies
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Ooh, I don't know which is more scary, the dropping O2, or all the additional meds. With decadron, make sure they closely monitor her blood sugar, it tends to rise even in non-diabetics. Also, morphine can tend to lessen the frightening feeling of not getting enough air by relaxing the person, but can have other side effects. My Mom tolerated sublingual drops well near the end, but they made both of her sisters hallucinate or get combative.
My sister and I never regretted one moment of the time we spent with our Mom in her last years, no matter how hard it was. We also had some help from our brothers and my girls. The time spent talking to her was so precious that it was easy to tolerate the hard times. At the end, as she let me know how tired she was, it was easier to let her slip away after a long decline. It was much harder with our Dad, who declined more quickly, but again we were blessed to be with him.
What you are doing, especially including your husband and kids, sends a wonderful message to your children, that caring for others is part of the cycle of life.
I will keep you in my thoughts as you go through these difficult days.
Sue