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Meet fellow Caregivers - Introduce yourself

Caregivers | Last Active: Nov 12, 2023 | Replies (707)

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@rockwood

I am Annie and my husband was diagnosed with Parkinson a year ago. We thought we could live happily ever after post our retirement. We travelled and enjoyed our lives. The news of his illness hit me harder than him. Both of us have been quite healthy and the diagnosis sent me to the deep end. I experienced depression for a while. Now I am back and decided to do my best to take care of him but sometimes wondered my own ability and energy. I would like to learn as much as I can from this group.

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Hello, @rockwood I'm sorry to read of your husband's diagnosis, but say welcome to Mayo Connect. You are right in that none of us know what the future holds for us, especially when it comes to our health and the health of our loved ones. It is good to have you here in the discussions about caregiving. For me, my years as a caregiver is what drove me to find Connect. It's a challenging journey and while each caregiver, patient, and their journeys are unique, I think you might find some good ideas, suggestions, etc. here from your fellow caregivers across the country and globe.

You specifically mentioned your doubt about your energy for this and I well remember all the doubts I had about whether or not I could even be a caregiver and over the years if I'd have the energy to carry on with the daily demands of caregiving. All I can say is all each of us can do as a caregiver is our best at the time. There are no superheroes in caregiving. Superman and Wonder Woman only exist in the comics.

Please let me know if you have any questions.

Strength, Courage, & Peace

Hi Annie,
I add my welcome. You may also wish to follow and take part in the Parkinson's group here on Mayo Clinic Connect:
- Parkinson's Disease https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/parkinsons-disease/

From fellow caregivers and people living with Parkinson's, you can learn more about what you can expect, ask questions, and give and get support.