upset caregiver: what do these results mean?

His appt is next Friday. I had my questions already wrote down when she called. Always bring a note book. And two boxes of kleenex. I don't think my brain is fully excepting yet. It could be because its not a 100% sure yet. Till after the biopsy, then it hit like a ton of bricks again. I try to be strong, but I'm the weak link in a chain

Scared2

Not at the time. Do I need to leave the group?

Not at the time. Do I need to leave the group?

I’m popping in a little late but eavesdropped in the conversations. @scared2, no wonder you’re feeling vulnerable, you have so much weight of uncertainty on your shoulders right now. As you can see, you have a family here on Connect who’ll help ease your burden in any way we can. We’re not here just to answer questions. So even with no questions you never have to leave! We’re here to offer each other encouragement, to lend an ear, give support and above all, to instill hope.
Hope is powerful.
When I was at the lowest point of my life, my transplant nurse whispered something in my ear one night which left an enormous impact and renewed my inner strength. “The only thing stronger than fear is Hope.”
It’s my hope that you’ll think of this phrase often throughout this period with your husband’s illness.

@loribmt
Hi Lori,
I love that quote that you shared with @scared2, "The only thing stronger than fear is Hope." I'm going to put that on my mirror!!

It’s impactful, isn’t it? Apparently it’s paraphrased from a line in a movie script but it doesn’t diminish its meaning. It was a heavy hitter for me at the time and remains one of my internal motivators if I waiver.

I’m popping in a little late but eavesdropped in the conversations. @scared2, no wonder you’re feeling vulnerable, you have so much weight of uncertainty on your shoulders right now. As you can see, you have a family here on Connect who’ll help ease your burden in any way we can. We’re not here just to answer questions. So even with no questions you never have to leave! We’re here to offer each other encouragement, to lend an ear, give support and above all, to instill hope.
Hope is powerful.
When I was at the lowest point of my life, my transplant nurse whispered something in my ear one night which left an enormous impact and renewed my inner strength. “The only thing stronger than fear is Hope.”
It’s my hope that you’ll think of this phrase often throughout this period with your husband’s illness.

Wow, Lori- How lucky to have had a nurse as you did! I'm also going to use this. It's so powerful and @scared2 - Please know that we are all pulling for your husband know that deep inside you have the strength to handle this!

I like that phase also. Two days away from the lung specialist. I'm kinda scared. Not that it's cancer,the dr kinda said it was when she called on the phone. What I'm scared of that it could be worse then expected. She told me its about a inch.
Back in the latest or early 90s. My ex had a co worker that was diagnosed with cancer and a year &1/2 to live. They did exploratory surgery and gave 6 months. He didn't make 2 months, the cancer spread like wild fire from the surgery. Can't remember all the details.

Friday,, We will find out if there will be a biosopy or what want plan to do.
Well heres hoping, its a nothing.
And all ends well.

Emotionally a mess,
Scared2

I like that phase also. Two days away from the lung specialist. I'm kinda scared. Not that it's cancer,the dr kinda said it was when she called on the phone. What I'm scared of that it could be worse then expected. She told me its about a inch.
Back in the latest or early 90s. My ex had a co worker that was diagnosed with cancer and a year &1/2 to live. They did exploratory surgery and gave 6 months. He didn't make 2 months, the cancer spread like wild fire from the surgery. Can't remember all the details.

Friday,, We will find out if there will be a biosopy or what want plan to do.
Well heres hoping, its a nothing.
And all ends well.

Emotionally a mess,
Scared2