Hey @jessisconcerned, and welcome. Sorry you are having to deal with this. I have had swollen lymph nodes. I have provided some info below that may help with your symptoms.

Folliculitis - " Aug 18, 2020 — Lifestyle and home remedies · Apply a warm, moist washcloth or compress. Do this several times a day to relieve discomfort and help the area ... "

Diagnosis and treatment - Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/folliculitis/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20361662

Folliculitis Home Treatment: 12 Remedies to Consider: https://www.healthline.com/health/skin/folliculitis-home-treatment

Jess, Have you tried taking a SITZ bath?
(Add ½ cup (125 mL) of baking soda or ¼ cup (75 mL) of salt to the bath water. Swirl the water until the baking soda or salt is dissolved. 5. Carefully enter the bath, sit down and soak your bottom area for 10 to 15 minutes.)

Have hot compresses helped at all?