Like you I am in pain all the time. Some days are worse than others, my worst time is at night. When my muscles start to relax and I begin to drift off to sleep, I'll get cramps in my neck ,shoulder and then up and down my spine. I don't know if this is normal fibromalgia symptoms or not. Have you ever heard of any one having these symptoms? I am always tired, thus irritable. My husband blames everything on menopause! And my kids just say "oh, there goes Mom again." I try not to complain but sometimes I can barely get out of my chair. I was hoping for this forum to be an outlet for me too. So if you ever want to talk, just let me know. I'll be checking this site as often as I can.