How do you cope with Overactive Bladder/Urge incontinence?
Does anyone have suggestions on how to cope with overactive bladder and urge incontinence? Are there any meds that can help without causing unwanted side effects?
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@artist01
I also have read about the mesh deterioration and have seen where lawsuits have been brought against the doctors but I know of no one personally who has experienced this. I share your concern and think a visit to a urologist is the next (however unpleasant)) step. It’s on your mind so I wouldn’t hesitate too long. Of course that’s easy for me to say. Let us know what you decide.
FL Mary
@maflynn777
Hi,
Don’t make this any more complicated than it has to be. Wash your hands, put a pea size amount on your finger and insert as far up as you are able using a circular motion. I went to a urogyn. and his nurse practitioner (who is the one who checks me out ) said to do it that way. So I have been doing that for several years. Also, this Rx doesn’t expire on the date indicated on the tube. Use it until it is gone. My daughter, also an ANRP said the same thing. Frequent use will get the job done regardless of the size of the pea....it works it way up there. And I look great inside lol. The tube is not necessary but clean hands are and we are all use to that by now.
FL Mary
@jeanne5009
You may have to try different type of pessaries until you find the right one. You should not even know you are wearing one. The PT I went to for my one visit said she had one and it was a ring with a hole in the middle. She said her husband doesn’t feel it when they have intercourse which is great. Goggle the different shapes. Mine is a solid circle with a stubby type handle on it that lets me kind of grab it when taking it out. There are different sizes and they measure you for one. And no, it does not stick out of the vagina. If it falls out then it is too small. If it hurts it may be too big. You put a small dab of lubricating jelly on it prior to insertion and generally have to have the dexterity to bend it in half for insertion. I could see this being a problem for anyone with arthritic hands.
Whoever you are working with should be explaining , in detail, what you have to do and make you practice inserting and removing before you leave the office. I know of an older women who needs to have it done for her so she has to go back to the office to have it removed and cleaned periodically.
FL Mary
The cream does not have to go deep into your vagina. I use a disposable glove and insert a small amount into my vagina. I do not go deep. It works believe me.
I got an infection from a glove that I took right out of the box. It doesn’t need to be sterilized but I wash my hand with the glove on with soap and water before I apply the cream.
Thank you.... just nervous since I don’t have sex and the area is pretty sensitive... sorry for the graphic language. I’ll try the washed glove and put as much as I can.
Thank you again....
I am also 79!!! What a coincidence!!!
@imallears Yes, I know the next step is to visit a Urologist! I was running out of text space and couldn't finish my thoughts for fear I would lose my entire post, which happens all too frequently with my little cell phone!
I live in a town with not too much access to specialists. I'm 85 years old now, no longer drive, and take our excellent service, Wheels for Wellness, to transport me to out of town medical appointments. I've got so many health problems that I currently have seven specialists for just about every part of my body! Lol. Just this week, my family doctor wanted to send me to yet another necessary specialist, and laughingly said, "But you've got SO many specialists!" I think I have just about every disease on the Mayo Connect discussion list. Lots of autoimmune stuff. Gotta sign off now!
Is there a similar treatment for men?
You are my hero! At 85 you prove that with a good spirit, knowledgable specialists we can still have a life. And a sense of humor too!