@lulujj777
Well, if his personality is drastically different now than before the steroids, I'd definitely suspect the steroids. Just google "steroids causing mood changes" (which I'm sure you have) and you see the articles. Prednisone especially, which is the one I got, can cause major personality issues. I'm no expert, but if and when he is no longer receiving steroids his mood symptoms will hopefully subside. It is scary what some drugs (and steroids are definitely drugs) can do to the brain. Bill, the man I described in my other post, was exactly like your husband.

I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I do believe you need to have a friendly ear from someone to listen to you as you deal with this. Do you have someone you can talk to, a good friend or relative who understands and can give you some solace and comfort? Even if abuse is coming to you through artificial means (such as steroids) it still affects you the same, it feels BAD, it hurts. I imagine what you are experiencing is the hardest thing to cope with as a caregiver. I feel for you and hope your husband comes back from this soon, for your sake as well as his. All my best to you, Hank