Let's Talk about Gardens

Posted by Rosemary, Volunteer Mentor @rosemarya, Mar 31, 2020

Spring is on it's way and many of us are looking forward to some sunshine and warmer weather and being outdoors...and gardens!
Perhaps you look forward to digging in the fresh spring time soil as you prepare for a summer garden? Do you plant flowers? Do you plant vegetables?
Do you garden for enjoyment? Do you garden for health benefits? What do you want to share about your garden?

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@sueinmn @funcountess

I've also thought about a privacy fence, sue. I know that there are sometimes height restrictions. Your neighbor might find a way to be a peeping Tom, as you've indicated, Countess, climbing a ladder. What you describe, it sounds like he has a mental illness that is causing his urge to peep. Does he look at your place only when you're outside? Could you take video with your phone to document his behavior?

As @mayofeb2020 said, you can get wire online. It's a large gauge wire, which will probably be easier on the plants. It is not just hobby wire.

Rather than wiring several limbs together, it would be gentler to do single, individual limbs at a time. It sounds like getting a Christmas tree out of its box and straighten all of the branches. That's not my favorite part of Christmas decorations.

Have you considered arborvitae as a screen? They can be purchased fairly large and are pretty fast growing (just avoid the biggest ones). Or maybe a vine that grows quickly. On my back fence I have Virginia Creeper that will form a dense screen, though I don't need a privacy fence or hedge. It's a nice looking plant. Did you ask the nursery clerk about fast growing things?

Whatever you find, you probably need to dig a hole even larger than is recommended, and amend and fertilize the soil generously. When I plant things I fill the hole with water and wait until the water has soaked in to the ground, and I make sure that the soil in the bottom of the hole is loose, making it easier for the plant to grow.

And I usually gently loosen the roots before putting the plant into its new home.

Sorry for all of the information, which is probably what you've read in your Sunset Garden book. Just have fun designing your yard. Mine was a blank canvas, so anything I did was an improvement. It sounds like that's what you're doing.

Jim

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@jimhd

@sueinmn @funcountess

I've also thought about a privacy fence, sue. I know that there are sometimes height restrictions. Your neighbor might find a way to be a peeping Tom, as you've indicated, Countess, climbing a ladder. What you describe, it sounds like he has a mental illness that is causing his urge to peep. Does he look at your place only when you're outside? Could you take video with your phone to document his behavior?

As @mayofeb2020 said, you can get wire online. It's a large gauge wire, which will probably be easier on the plants. It is not just hobby wire.

Rather than wiring several limbs together, it would be gentler to do single, individual limbs at a time. It sounds like getting a Christmas tree out of its box and straighten all of the branches. That's not my favorite part of Christmas decorations.

Have you considered arborvitae as a screen? They can be purchased fairly large and are pretty fast growing (just avoid the biggest ones). Or maybe a vine that grows quickly. On my back fence I have Virginia Creeper that will form a dense screen, though I don't need a privacy fence or hedge. It's a nice looking plant. Did you ask the nursery clerk about fast growing things?

Whatever you find, you probably need to dig a hole even larger than is recommended, and amend and fertilize the soil generously. When I plant things I fill the hole with water and wait until the water has soaked in to the ground, and I make sure that the soil in the bottom of the hole is loose, making it easier for the plant to grow.

And I usually gently loosen the roots before putting the plant into its new home.

Sorry for all of the information, which is probably what you've read in your Sunset Garden book. Just have fun designing your yard. Mine was a blank canvas, so anything I did was an improvement. It sounds like that's what you're doing.

Jim

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Hi Jim,
Thanks for the info. The trees/ bushes were planted before these people moved in.
They have been a awful neighbor for close to 25 years. I noticed emotional problems from them instantly. When they first moved in for one year the man would go to the side of his house behind his gate and make all sorts of weird noise for about 2 hours. Very strange.
That stopped when we had a bad year with heavy rain.
We do have a height limit on fencing. There is a fence that runs from front to all the way up the hill. He is taller then the height limit. All the trees/bushes run along the same line.
When bushes/trees block his view out comes the shears cutters. I’ve told him a million times to only trim what grows on his side. He has chronic obsessions.
I did take plenty of pictures , have good ones of the ladder and him sitting on it.
Cops know about it and said ignore him, since no crime has been committed nothing they can do.
When I toss trash in my trash cans he magically appears, and starts to bang his trash cans.
Same with my Gardner, he makes noise when my Gardner is;here, and sometimes turning his water on to get my Gardner wet, or his truck. Even tho my Gardner parks in front of my house.
Authorities have been to his place on occasion for odds and ends things.
He does retreat for awhile.
I believe he has cameras at all his windows, something that is going to be looked into.
When the trees/bushes burned, the insurance company pulled the destroyed trees out, and planted new ones. Now they are coming next weeks with a new landscaper to see what else can be done for privacy.
If I went any higher on fencing,I’m sure it would be reported.
As for Christmas tree, it’s at the moving and van storage company. Safely in storage since the fire.
I did get the wire at a nursery only $4.00 I do take one long branch from one tree and another branch from another and join them.
Still too many open spaces.
The vines I had all burned when we had a cold snap.
The people on the other side of him are at a much higher elevation, and do have the limit on fencing so they Do not have same problem, although they stay away, because of bizarre behavior.
His wife also has serious mental issues, I think depression. Very strange behavior, she disappears for years, then Returns. I think they have been married and divorced multiple times to each other.they each have one child from other spouses, and the adult kids never come around.
Their ages she’s late 70s and he is early 70s.
Neither one has ever worked at least not since they moved into their home, which has 6 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms.
I had to call the police once because the wife was up to no good.
The neighbors stay away from them.
It’s unfortunate they live next door.
I could go on and on, but you get the picture on what is going on.

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@sueinmn

@funcountess I sympathize with your neighbor challenge - we have lived in such places!

Depending on your policy and the rules of your state insurance commission, the information about tree replacement differs. However, the nursery man should also have explained to you that replacing mature trees/shrubs in a row with similar ones carries a risk. The larger the plant, the higher the likelihood the new plant will not survive, but it will definitely suffer a lot of distress. Research at the U of MN Arboretum shows that smaller trees suffer less transplant shock and begin growing much sooner than larger ones, after a few years they catch up quite well. AND the larger the disturbed area planters create to put in each tree, the greater the chance they will disturb roots of surrounding plants and cause them stress, or even eventual death. Finally, in many places, new planting of large trees is not guaranteed like smaller ones, due to the higher rate of failure. So, it is a balancing act.

Since your privacy screen has been disturbed and will be for some time, have you considered a privacy fence, to be removed after the trees fill in?

Sue

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Hi Sue,
Your input is greatly appreciated, and I told the insurance adjuster. Please read the post reply I just sent Jim, and you will definitely see the problem/issue.
I made the adjuster aware of killing the good trees / landscaping.
A new landscape company Is coming end of next week, as they agree not to kill the roots of the good trees/bushes.
Right now all I can do is wait. Today construction crew is working on garage/ laundry room. They will be here another 5 days.
Slow process until everything gets done.
Thanks for caring,and your excellent knowledge.
I will keep you posted.
Take care, Funcountess

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Whoo-hoo! Just got my copy of the straw bale gardening book, @sueinmn! Good reading material for next couple of days. And I have a ready local source for straw bales. Now to make my list of supplies...
Ginger

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@funcountess

Hi Jim,
Thanks for the info. The trees/ bushes were planted before these people moved in.
They have been a awful neighbor for close to 25 years. I noticed emotional problems from them instantly. When they first moved in for one year the man would go to the side of his house behind his gate and make all sorts of weird noise for about 2 hours. Very strange.
That stopped when we had a bad year with heavy rain.
We do have a height limit on fencing. There is a fence that runs from front to all the way up the hill. He is taller then the height limit. All the trees/bushes run along the same line.
When bushes/trees block his view out comes the shears cutters. I’ve told him a million times to only trim what grows on his side. He has chronic obsessions.
I did take plenty of pictures , have good ones of the ladder and him sitting on it.
Cops know about it and said ignore him, since no crime has been committed nothing they can do.
When I toss trash in my trash cans he magically appears, and starts to bang his trash cans.
Same with my Gardner, he makes noise when my Gardner is;here, and sometimes turning his water on to get my Gardner wet, or his truck. Even tho my Gardner parks in front of my house.
Authorities have been to his place on occasion for odds and ends things.
He does retreat for awhile.
I believe he has cameras at all his windows, something that is going to be looked into.
When the trees/bushes burned, the insurance company pulled the destroyed trees out, and planted new ones. Now they are coming next weeks with a new landscaper to see what else can be done for privacy.
If I went any higher on fencing,I’m sure it would be reported.
As for Christmas tree, it’s at the moving and van storage company. Safely in storage since the fire.
I did get the wire at a nursery only $4.00 I do take one long branch from one tree and another branch from another and join them.
Still too many open spaces.
The vines I had all burned when we had a cold snap.
The people on the other side of him are at a much higher elevation, and do have the limit on fencing so they Do not have same problem, although they stay away, because of bizarre behavior.
His wife also has serious mental issues, I think depression. Very strange behavior, she disappears for years, then Returns. I think they have been married and divorced multiple times to each other.they each have one child from other spouses, and the adult kids never come around.
Their ages she’s late 70s and he is early 70s.
Neither one has ever worked at least not since they moved into their home, which has 6 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms.
I had to call the police once because the wife was up to no good.
The neighbors stay away from them.
It’s unfortunate they live next door.
I could go on and on, but you get the picture on what is going on.

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@funcountess Nature moves at its own slow pace.

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@funcountess

Hi Jim,
Thanks for the info. The trees/ bushes were planted before these people moved in.
They have been a awful neighbor for close to 25 years. I noticed emotional problems from them instantly. When they first moved in for one year the man would go to the side of his house behind his gate and make all sorts of weird noise for about 2 hours. Very strange.
That stopped when we had a bad year with heavy rain.
We do have a height limit on fencing. There is a fence that runs from front to all the way up the hill. He is taller then the height limit. All the trees/bushes run along the same line.
When bushes/trees block his view out comes the shears cutters. I’ve told him a million times to only trim what grows on his side. He has chronic obsessions.
I did take plenty of pictures , have good ones of the ladder and him sitting on it.
Cops know about it and said ignore him, since no crime has been committed nothing they can do.
When I toss trash in my trash cans he magically appears, and starts to bang his trash cans.
Same with my Gardner, he makes noise when my Gardner is;here, and sometimes turning his water on to get my Gardner wet, or his truck. Even tho my Gardner parks in front of my house.
Authorities have been to his place on occasion for odds and ends things.
He does retreat for awhile.
I believe he has cameras at all his windows, something that is going to be looked into.
When the trees/bushes burned, the insurance company pulled the destroyed trees out, and planted new ones. Now they are coming next weeks with a new landscaper to see what else can be done for privacy.
If I went any higher on fencing,I’m sure it would be reported.
As for Christmas tree, it’s at the moving and van storage company. Safely in storage since the fire.
I did get the wire at a nursery only $4.00 I do take one long branch from one tree and another branch from another and join them.
Still too many open spaces.
The vines I had all burned when we had a cold snap.
The people on the other side of him are at a much higher elevation, and do have the limit on fencing so they Do not have same problem, although they stay away, because of bizarre behavior.
His wife also has serious mental issues, I think depression. Very strange behavior, she disappears for years, then Returns. I think they have been married and divorced multiple times to each other.they each have one child from other spouses, and the adult kids never come around.
Their ages she’s late 70s and he is early 70s.
Neither one has ever worked at least not since they moved into their home, which has 6 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms.
I had to call the police once because the wife was up to no good.
The neighbors stay away from them.
It’s unfortunate they live next door.
I could go on and on, but you get the picture on what is going on.

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@funcountess The man obviously has some serious psychological problems. More than likely he is harmless but it is unnerving to have him next door, I am sure.

There is boy who comes to my health club with his father and I try to avoid them. He swings his arms at people and at one point he swung his arm at my head and knocked a hearing aid out of my ear! I feel sorry for him but if he had broken my hearing aid, or knocked it off in the water (they use the pool also) I would have been really upset. I think the father needs to pay a bit more attention. In your case though this is an adult. If his wife leaves for long periods of time then he's just alone there?
JK

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@sueinmn

@funcountess I sympathize with your neighbor challenge - we have lived in such places!

Depending on your policy and the rules of your state insurance commission, the information about tree replacement differs. However, the nursery man should also have explained to you that replacing mature trees/shrubs in a row with similar ones carries a risk. The larger the plant, the higher the likelihood the new plant will not survive, but it will definitely suffer a lot of distress. Research at the U of MN Arboretum shows that smaller trees suffer less transplant shock and begin growing much sooner than larger ones, after a few years they catch up quite well. AND the larger the disturbed area planters create to put in each tree, the greater the chance they will disturb roots of surrounding plants and cause them stress, or even eventual death. Finally, in many places, new planting of large trees is not guaranteed like smaller ones, due to the higher rate of failure. So, it is a balancing act.

Since your privacy screen has been disturbed and will be for some time, have you considered a privacy fence, to be removed after the trees fill in?

Sue

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Hi Sue,
Landscaper who deals with insurance claims, paid a surprise visit this a.m. he said you know your plant/tree business. And wanted to know if you wanted to work for his company. I told him you live out of state, and maybe you would consider it, if somebody picked you up in a private jet every day.
The result is he going to draw up plans and submit to insurance co. and me
He said. Boxwood, ficus, and oleander, the saint augustine variety.
He found spits in current fencing, and wants to put 12 inch boards of treated redwood in a concrete base to cover open areas. Tons of dirt will be hauled in, and mulch.
Gus did look over fencing and did see 3 camera on wood stakes, and one attached to the screwballs house directly across from one of my doors.
He said I need to contact a private investigator, and attorney, because these people definitely have mental issues.
Also, Gus said the cops do nothing until a crime has been. Commited.
Gus took my garden hose and sprayed over the fence, to maybe disengage those few
Camera that are directed into my property.
Gus asked if I had young girls living here, and I said only one,ME, and I don’t walk around nude, or in a bikini.
He did say a few times, I had pretty landscaping.
If I had the money I would put in a tennis court, certainly enough room for one, and put the tennis courts night lights on the property line.
Anyway will see if insurance company likes Gus plans.
Garage will be completed next Friday, and new windows will be installed in a few days.
Inside will take 6 more months.
just curious, how did you gain your knowledge? Are you a landscape architect?
You give good advice. Appreciate it.
Funcountess

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@funcountess

Hi Sue,
Landscaper who deals with insurance claims, paid a surprise visit this a.m. he said you know your plant/tree business. And wanted to know if you wanted to work for his company. I told him you live out of state, and maybe you would consider it, if somebody picked you up in a private jet every day.
The result is he going to draw up plans and submit to insurance co. and me
He said. Boxwood, ficus, and oleander, the saint augustine variety.
He found spits in current fencing, and wants to put 12 inch boards of treated redwood in a concrete base to cover open areas. Tons of dirt will be hauled in, and mulch.
Gus did look over fencing and did see 3 camera on wood stakes, and one attached to the screwballs house directly across from one of my doors.
He said I need to contact a private investigator, and attorney, because these people definitely have mental issues.
Also, Gus said the cops do nothing until a crime has been. Commited.
Gus took my garden hose and sprayed over the fence, to maybe disengage those few
Camera that are directed into my property.
Gus asked if I had young girls living here, and I said only one,ME, and I don’t walk around nude, or in a bikini.
He did say a few times, I had pretty landscaping.
If I had the money I would put in a tennis court, certainly enough room for one, and put the tennis courts night lights on the property line.
Anyway will see if insurance company likes Gus plans.
Garage will be completed next Friday, and new windows will be installed in a few days.
Inside will take 6 more months.
just curious, how did you gain your knowledge? Are you a landscape architect?
You give good advice. Appreciate it.
Funcountess

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@funcountess Since you have such a pretty garden, is there any way that you could put up a security light system that would be motion activated, and blind the security cameras? If your landscape expert / insurance person was able to get pictures of those cameras you would be able to possibly go to a civil attorney. You could ask for a cease-and-desist demand letter for the cameras to be taken down as an infringement on your privacy and peaceful living. There have been cases sent to trial for just such things in your county. I believe you would want a land-use attorney.
Ginger

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@funcountess You may tell the adjuster that I'm happily retired and only advise on a volunteer basis.

Today I hosted 2 more diggers - wish I had tracked the number of plants going to new homes these past 2 weeks - surely well over 100, and still more marked to go. I spent a good part of the last 2 days digging violets and chickweed from my gardens. 30 gallons worth so far and more to go tomorrow!

I desperately need more mulch put down, but not up for having my teenaged gardener here because he doesn't get distancing according to his grandpa. But...one of my diggers today will be without her summer job, isolates because of her husband's health and she is willing to be my laborer. She will welcome the cash because she's not eligible for any unemployment per her school year contract. And she's a knowledgeable gardener who can weed and mulch without supervision. What a happy coincidence.

Yesterday between showers I finished all my pots, so now it's just maintenance - and chasing bunnies and deer. Had to run for the repellant this afternoon when I saw the chewed tops on the lupine and several other plants.

Sue

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@funcountess

Hi Sue,
Landscaper who deals with insurance claims, paid a surprise visit this a.m. he said you know your plant/tree business. And wanted to know if you wanted to work for his company. I told him you live out of state, and maybe you would consider it, if somebody picked you up in a private jet every day.
The result is he going to draw up plans and submit to insurance co. and me
He said. Boxwood, ficus, and oleander, the saint augustine variety.
He found spits in current fencing, and wants to put 12 inch boards of treated redwood in a concrete base to cover open areas. Tons of dirt will be hauled in, and mulch.
Gus did look over fencing and did see 3 camera on wood stakes, and one attached to the screwballs house directly across from one of my doors.
He said I need to contact a private investigator, and attorney, because these people definitely have mental issues.
Also, Gus said the cops do nothing until a crime has been. Commited.
Gus took my garden hose and sprayed over the fence, to maybe disengage those few
Camera that are directed into my property.
Gus asked if I had young girls living here, and I said only one,ME, and I don’t walk around nude, or in a bikini.
He did say a few times, I had pretty landscaping.
If I had the money I would put in a tennis court, certainly enough room for one, and put the tennis courts night lights on the property line.
Anyway will see if insurance company likes Gus plans.
Garage will be completed next Friday, and new windows will be installed in a few days.
Inside will take 6 more months.
just curious, how did you gain your knowledge? Are you a landscape architect?
You give good advice. Appreciate it.
Funcountess

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@funcountess, Not laughing at the infringement of your neighbors but Heck, If I were to walk around nude or in a bikini, it would almost guarantee neighbors would run to remove any intrusive cameras! @gingerw, Ginger's suggestions might be worth consideration. Good luck; you have every right to privacy on your own property. So sorry this has happened to you.

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