COVID-19 and Transplant Patients

@contentandwell. What a beautiful house you have! I live in a very small condo. My guy friend had only been out of his house twice since March, once to get his flu shot and once to the dentist. He said he was traumatized both times! His daughter is a nurse in NYC and worked with covid patients, she told him all the horror stories so he's refusing to leave the house. He's having his grocery delivered too. Ralphs offers $79 a year for delivery. He's a major introvert anyway so he's ok with being by himself. My daughter said her neighbor has parties all the time, she doesn't know who to complain to because the neighbor is the Mayor of the city! Even though my son only lives a mile away, he does have to go into the office once a week so he is super cautious about coming over. My daughter and her husband are driving up to their second home in Portland, just a change of scenery and they'll work in their home there. They take all precautions in their travel. I think it's like feast or famine as far as isolation is concern. We just have to be safe. There's no second chance with this virus.

@mayofeb2020 My husband was less so initially but we have a close friend who is an extreme fanatic and he and my husband talk a lot. I think that has influenced my husband. When we were able to visit with him and his wife, it was outdoors, 6' apart, and masks on. They are isolating as much as we are so technically, from what I have read, they could be in our "bubble" but he is over-the-top.

My daughter and her husband have visited two times after isolating and getting tested. It was great to see them but they can't be doing that all of the time. My son and his wife would need to fly here so I won't allow that. I will not put him and his wife at risk by flying.

I agree, even a brief trip to the grocery store would be some relief. I hate having my produce and meat selected by shoppers. When I mentioned that to the friend I mentioned he practically went ballistic saying I should not do that, so that of course influences my husband.

It does have an effect on a person, mentally. I may survive Covid but in the process, I may go stark, raving, mad. I have no desire to decorate for Christmas, that would just depress me more by reminding me that we will see no one. We have a two-story foyer and I always love the garlands on the rails so my son made my husband promise to put them up. I know he meant well but it really does not matter to me.

Finding out this week that we post-transplant patients will not be able to get the vaccine really put a damper on everything.
JK

@zon Hi and thanks for the info on the Vaccine. Interesting I saw a video recently of a Dr who was testifing in the Senate about a drug he has had great success with but manly.when they get the paient early or is taken prior to infection. It was a Doctor Pierre Kory who was speaking on behalf of a group of doctors that have great data on a drug already in use. The plea was to get there data reviewed and approved by the powers to be. Sounded very promising. Here is a link to the video.
https://youtu.be/Tq8SXOBy-4w
Have a blessed Day
Dana

Like everyone else I was disappointed by the news that transplant patients were not yet approved to receive the vaccine, this was especially shocking because the news was the opposite up until now. I feel like I'm in the movie Groundhog's Day where you repeat everyday over and over... for me that is right down to the sweat pants.

My husband has been VERY protective of me during this time, I think he is still pretty traumatized by how sick I was before transplant and wants to make sure nothing like that happens to me again. I am happy that the vaccine is Messenger RNA and not a live vaccine so at least he can get the shots and one of us can be safe.

Until we are approved for the vaccine I'm determined to keep my beautiful kidney safe at any cost. I'm am beyond blessed to have gotten this second chance at life from my living donor!!! I feel like I've been able to make it this far and trading a few more months in isolation for a chance at long life is a small price to pay.

@mayofeb2020 Thanks. Homes in NH are much less costly than in MA and many other areas. We really do need to downsize now but I still want room for when my son and daughter visit since they both live away, she in NYC and he in Denver. I can't keep up with cleaning this house though. We did have someone come in to clean every other week but my husband is not OK with that at all.

People having parties are crazy. Your son is considerate to be so cautious. It's such a difficult and miserable situation. I really feel bad for people who live alone, that must be even worse, although I am the type who could probably do it very happily -- no having to cook regular meals!
JK

You are so right. Some days I'm in my warm flannel pj all day. Some of my friends who live alone do the same thing. My children who work at home wear dressy tops and sweat pants if they have to be on zoom!

I've seen a lot about the vaccine and COVID , and would like to toss a few things out there. First, I'm a four time kidney transplant, I got the virus in March and just had a cough, it surely could have been a lot worse but than so can a bad pneumonia, I have not changed the way I do things, except for the mask wearing indoors. I'm always careful when I go places, always have been and regardless of what they say, virus's are sometimes unavoidable, since I have had it and am producing antibodies, I will not get a vaccine, now I want to say we are responsible for ourselves and should make our own decisions about what's right for you, we can be careful and live without fear.....now if your a brand new transplant patient, your at a higher risk than almost a one out there, so you need to limit your public involvement to a bare minimum, in conclusion stay vigilant, live wisely and not out of fear, ( we are His workmanship) Eph.2:10, God Bless Merry Christmas

dear all I am liver transplants guy ..I like to know if the vaccine will be ok for us or we should wait ...please advice..