For those who are no longer caregiving, you may wish to log into http://www.thecaregiverspace.org, a non-profit, supportive website. There is a special group for caregivers whose loved ones have died and are no longer caregiving. I was a caregiver for 23 years. My husband died at the end of November. In addition to profound grief, my daily tasks changed and the pace of my days changed. It was a jolt.