@lah When you get home, both of you will want a nap or a rest!
No, this is my fourth go 'round with cancer, all were different types. None were metastisized. Three involved surgery, but this last one now is a blood cancer, so cannot do surgery. My husband has not had cancer.
Contact those support groups and ask them for resources for groups that might meet on evenings or the weekends. Perhaps there is even a patient-and-caregiver group you could attend?
Ginger