I've been to the "Transitions" group twice now, and I can already tell that, even though nothing has changed for me around here, it is definitely going to help me see things in a more positive way and learn to appreciate my new home turf. After all, I am right at the bottom of the Blue Ridge Mountains, and I know a lot of folks would love that. I do to, sort of, but I trust that this Transitions group is really going to help me learn to have a different way of looking at things. I thank God for that.
I still am debating whether or not to reopen the alimony portion of our divorce. If he had not been so nasty when I asked him for help, just one time, I probably wouldn't be thinking this way. But the way he spoke to me set off all kinds of alarms. I don't want to mess up our family, but at the same time I don't think he should be allowed to get away with that type of attitude toward me. After all, I am the mother of his 3, healthy, well-adjusted kids.
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