@ parus from sandymom did You say avoid stressful situations? Please tell me how. My parents, my mother had 7 m/c. No rogam @ time I lived w/ blood transfusions upon being born. Mom was in iron lung tb 1950 She had bad heart. Lived to 73. Rickets polio. Took care of her mother brother sister. Married to my dad 60 yrs. They never complained of illness ever. I in pain from 3. Fibromyalgia @ 38. Mom passed suddenly @ 73. Point found out severe anxiety w/ in mom.I to this day have been tested for everything under sun. Intelligent creative etc. but stress. I guess born in me. Found mum was in awful pain. Had no time to think about it. No pills nothing. Homemaker canning iron caregiver etc. church. Stress you say to avoid. How born in me to a point of unbearable pain. Make sense?