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@contentandwell, JK, great news that your new pcp spent over an hour with you as a new patient. Starting anew after being with a pro for a long time is always a bit anxiety provoking for me.

Wonderful that your longtime PCP called and visited with you privately! Certainly speaks to how highly he values you not only as a patient but also that he was "big enough" to acknowledge he could have done a better job with your osteoporosis.

Sharing off topic personal interests is what I attribute to my close bonds with several docs...our grands, vacation spots, add another dimension and when making a change, that personal part of the relationship adds to the missing them.

Changing from my very personable cardiologist to a new, more formal one was particularly difficult but paid dividends for me. Sometimes, a change adds a new approach or perspective. On my first visit, he gave me two new diagnoses that set me on a new adventure and one that I might not have discovered otherwise.

A close friend once gifted me with a little pillow: "It takes a long time to make an old friend". So true but new ones can become cherished, too. Look at all the cyber friends made here at Connect ! Smiles

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@fiesty76 I have found that my prior PCP has been very open about admitting things. It took a very long time for my non-alcoholic cirrhosis to be diagnosed. I was quite sure that the neurologist I went to because the HE episodes made my PCP think it was a neurologic problem was the person who suggested liver but my husband thought my PCP had diagnosed it so I asked him bluntly and he admitted that he had not diagnosed it.

I plan to have a physical with the new PCP. After that I will decide if I should stay with her or go back to my old PCP. I hope she will be good. I told my old PCP that she was more formal and he said that's typical for first appointments. I then reminded him that on my first appointment he brought me into his office to show me pictures of his children! We really did hit it off immediately and he has been through a lot with me. When I started going to Mass General for my care I discovered that he had looked up the doctors I went to there to check on them! I guess my heart is with him, but my brain is with her.
JK