Hearing Loss: Come introduce yourself and connect with others

Welcome to the Hearing Loss group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with hearing loss, and friends and family supporters. Whether you were born deaf or hard of hearing, experienced hearing loss after birth or with aging, it helps to connect with others. Together we can learn from each other, support one another and share stories about living with hearing loss, coping with challenges and celebrating milestones.

Let’s chat. Why not start by introducing yourself? What is your hearing loss experience? Got a question, tip or story to share?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Hearing Loss Support Group.

@jfobes

Thank you for your interest and advice! I am an overly analytical person and have researched heavily my dilemma. My best conclusion would be leaning toward eustreatian tube disfunction possibly related to a jaw problem like TMJ. I did get tested for TMJ and I was told nope! I do however have a tight jaw, not clenching teeth just tight and pressing tongue against the roof of my mouth. I have tried to remedy that to no avail! Perhaps I should try chewing gum?

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@jfobes That's an interesting thought, chewing gum. I hope I would never be told to do that, I can't stand gum. Eustachian tube sounds like a possibility. I hope you can finally find a cause for this.
JK

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Hi all, thank you for being out here. I am Lizzy and have tinnitus and profound hearing loss "corrected" by 2- Resound 3-D BTE HAs. I read lips proficiently. My hearing loss started in 1991 when I as given a drug designed to prevent my 1.5 year old kidney transplant from being rejected (it worked!). By 1996, I was constantly exhausted trying to hear my patients (psychotherapist). I got my hearing tested and they dx progressing nerve damage and I got my first HA. Several years later I went bilateral (which I should have done in the first place). Now my loss is quite profound - without HAs and a constantly hyper-alert state I have no idea whether anyone is behind me or talking to me. The sense of isolation, of being different/deficient/ab-normal are keen, I constantly remind myself that I am worthy, strong and capable to combat depression. Anxiety is another issue that comes from hyper-awareness and not knowing for sure what is going on around me at times. Phew, that's a mouthful. Glad to be here and offer my support and knowledge to the group and happy to be in a safe place where what I say will be understood by others.

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@jfobes

Good evening all. Had a hard time finding a forum for people like myself with ear issues. I say ear issues because I am not convinced I have healing loss and hear (pun intended) is why. I am 57 and have had ringing in my ears for as long as I can remember. No apparent reason or known injury to cause this. My hearing has never been great I guess but seems to have decreased and my ears are feeling fuller the past several years. I have had hearing test and have hearing aids. I do not like the electronic sound the aids produce and they are not very effective most of the time due to environmental or other conditions.

Here is what really baffles me and what nobody has been able to explain or theorize a reason for.

Every now and then (one maybe two times a year) my head will feel like it flushes and bang I can hear great and the ringing is gone, like totally gone, like really awesome!!! I can hear better if not perfectly, TV volume is on 13 instead of 30 and conversations are crisp. It really is a great thing. Until the next morning....... I wake up and everything is back to my "normal" This is why I do not feel I have hearing loss, misplaced maybe but not lost as the ability for me to hear very well is within me!

My ears always seem full or plugged. If I plug my nose and apply light pressure with my mouth my ears will crackle, pop and make all kinds of noise. This is 24/7/364, not every now and then. It is all the time!

I am looking for help or a direction to turn. My local docs and ENT's just say it's age and ignore me when I tell them what/how I feel or about the occasional great hearing days.

Any help, advice, words of wisdom or personal experience would be greatly appreciated!!

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Find another ENT who has Audiologists on staff. You describe what happens to the Audiologist and s/he can help talk to the ENT.

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@lizzy102

Hi all, thank you for being out here. I am Lizzy and have tinnitus and profound hearing loss "corrected" by 2- Resound 3-D BTE HAs. I read lips proficiently. My hearing loss started in 1991 when I as given a drug designed to prevent my 1.5 year old kidney transplant from being rejected (it worked!). By 1996, I was constantly exhausted trying to hear my patients (psychotherapist). I got my hearing tested and they dx progressing nerve damage and I got my first HA. Several years later I went bilateral (which I should have done in the first place). Now my loss is quite profound - without HAs and a constantly hyper-alert state I have no idea whether anyone is behind me or talking to me. The sense of isolation, of being different/deficient/ab-normal are keen, I constantly remind myself that I am worthy, strong and capable to combat depression. Anxiety is another issue that comes from hyper-awareness and not knowing for sure what is going on around me at times. Phew, that's a mouthful. Glad to be here and offer my support and knowledge to the group and happy to be in a safe place where what I say will be understood by others.

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@lizzy102 Hi Lizzy, and welcome to Connect.
I have had a hearing loss and been wearing hearing aids since 2004. In the last couple of years my hearing of sounds has not diminished much at all, but my clarity has. I had a liver transplant in September, 2016, and I have been wondering if the immunosuppressants exacerbated the problem. From your post it sounds like you identified them as having affected yours.

It sounds as if your loss may be worse than mine, although mine is considered to be pretty profound. I drive my husband crazy because I don't hear him come into the room and am always startled. He says, "I do live here too, you know". I know he finds it annoying.

I find it terribly isolating when we have company, family here, or when we go out to dinner with others. It's very difficult to hear anyone with the background noise. My hearing aids are Oticon OPN1 and I do have the "Connect Clip" to go with them. It a little microphone that the person who is speaking to me can put around their neck or clip on their clothes and the sound goes directly into my hearing aids. It does help with some situations, but in a noisy room it also picks up the background noise. When I got the OPN1s a couple of years ago, they were supposed to be the best for clarity but now they have just come out with a new model with 15% better clarity. Unfortunately, due to the price of hearing aids, I don't think I will be getting them for a while, but if I needed aids now I would definitely check them out.
JK

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Hi my name is Marty, I Have been dealing with hearing loss and tinnitus for quite some time, I wear hearing aids in both ears. I retired from the USCG after a 26 year career, my rating was Machinery Technician(mechanic) and I was around heavy machinery for most of my life and career my hearing loss is occupational hazard related. The VA furnishes me with hearing aids and treatment. I get a yearly hearing test and my most recent shows that my left ear is getting worse so I will soon get an appointment with a ENT. I am a bit nervous and worried about the outcome, but we will wait and see what the diagnosis is.

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Hello, I am JoAngela. I have a profound hearing loss, and I wear hearing aids. I am 58 years old and I have had some hearing loss most of my life. It has just gotten worse over the years. My goal here is to meet and talk with people that are also living with hearing loss.

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@joangela

Hello, I am JoAngela. I have a profound hearing loss, and I wear hearing aids. I am 58 years old and I have had some hearing loss most of my life. It has just gotten worse over the years. My goal here is to meet and talk with people that are also living with hearing loss.

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Hello @joangela Welcome to Mayo Connect! Great to have you here! I am Scott and I am deaf on my right side (along with no sight on that side as well) due to a stroke and an earlier bout of meningitis.

What do you encounter with your hearing loss that is your biggest frustration? Mine is noisy rooms and/or noisy restaurants,

Again, glad you found Mayo Connect!

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Hello, I am JoAngela and I have a Profound Hearing loss. I have had hearing loss most of my life, but it has gotten worse over time. I am now 58 years old. My primary goal in joining is to meet and converse with people with a similar impairment.

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@IndianaScott

Hello @joangela Welcome to Mayo Connect! Great to have you here! I am Scott and I am deaf on my right side (along with no sight on that side as well) due to a stroke and an earlier bout of meningitis.

What do you encounter with your hearing loss that is your biggest frustration? Mine is noisy rooms and/or noisy restaurants,

Again, glad you found Mayo Connect!

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Hello Scott, Being left out of the conversation. Not intentionally, but on the other hand, it is totally because of my hearing loss. Perhaps they just don’t want to repeat themselves or since I don’t hear well, there are times when I just can’t keep up with the conversation, so I live in silence sometimes.
The other thing is being in public places and if I didn’t hear what person said, a lot of times they look at you like you’re crazy. You know, hearing world stuff. Lol

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@IndianaScott

Hello @joangela Welcome to Mayo Connect! Great to have you here! I am Scott and I am deaf on my right side (along with no sight on that side as well) due to a stroke and an earlier bout of meningitis.

What do you encounter with your hearing loss that is your biggest frustration? Mine is noisy rooms and/or noisy restaurants,

Again, glad you found Mayo Connect!

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@IndianaScott , @joangela - Good morning, and welcome Joangela . Yes! Noisy rooms, restaurants, and people with a certain way of speaking. It's as though they inhale their words! My husband is a home brewer and believe me, tap rooms and brew pubs are the worst!

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