I just did an informational board for the hospital where I work. Every you stated is true. You must was hand with soap at least 20 seconds and hand sanitizer doesn’t work. Clorox wipes do not work either. I have small grandchildren as well and I am extra cautious with them. We don’t share food or drinks. I don’t believe you can pass by touch unless you didn’t wash hands. I do no let them sleep in my bed. I wash everything with bleach in my bathroom as well as tub. I also change towels at the end of day and keep mine separate in my bathroom from ones used by others if company comes. I may be a little over cautious but I would rather be safe than sorry.