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The Journey of Grieving

Loss & Grief | Last Active: Mar 1, 2020 | Replies (111)

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@maddiec

Just found this site...Dealing everyday with the loss of my husband of 42 years..He died in August 2018 from pancreatic cancer but have been grieving since his diagnosis in 2016...trying to keep busy is key for me,as well as socializing with friends and family...it gives me the respite I need from the sadness and loneliness..I know it's a process and there will be an ebb and flow to my grief...literally living one day at a time..not a club anyone wants to be in for sure..:(

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Hi, @maddiec, and welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Thank you for sharing some of the things that have helped you in this grieving process, like socializing with friends and family, and trying to keep busy.

You mentioned grieving since your husband's diagnosis since 2016, and that he passed away in 2018. I'm guessing others have also had the experience of grieving before a loved one passed away. I'm wondering if you would share a bit more about what that was like learning about his diagnosis of pancreatic cancer?