It's been awhile since I've responded here and was wondering how you are doing? Care-giving is such a difficult task and taking care of yourself can be a tough job. Have you found time each day/week just for yourself, and your family? Do you have respite care available to you? Our local hospital has a list of trained persons willing to sit for a few hours at a time. Some even over night. Of course, they charge per hour but it would probably be less than Adult Day Care fees. Check with your local hospital. Let me know how you are doing.