I have not been put to the test; but I am following your care givers group very closely. I am 67 and my husband is 69. I have noticed some changes in him and I am fearing the future. What I read from you all, is very humbling and I am learning a lot. If cancer is not for sissies, caregiving sound not much different. I am a cancer survivor. My husband cared for me with so much love and patience, that I feel I need to get ready in case he would need me. You all are such big examples! Just keep the good work. As I said before, there is a lot of silent people listening to you. We want to be there for you too. If you think you are doing this just for a loved one, you are not. You are doing it for us, and you are doing it for yourselves. We notice and we thank you.
Loli