@godsgiver ...first off, no words BIG enough to express the HUGE task you've taken on. Some of us are called to be servers. I often find myself doing and serving...why...because it's in my nature. That said, we're only human. We get tired, burnt out, feel unappreciated, and all too often, taken advantage of. I realize your in a situation that may not allow you to get away much, but what I find helps tremendously, is a few hours out doing what I like. I'm not a caregiver at home like you, but often the one who serves the family, or friends, for whatever the occasion, good or bad. When I tire doing good, i always pray God give me strength to do whatever He calls me to do, and to do it cheerfully, not grudgingly. Often, I need to take a step back, create some distance, or just play it cool for awhile. People usually get the hint. Perhaps during those times you could let those know around you (maybe wifey) your taking time out...a lunch with a buddy, fishing or whatever you like...I love my wine, LOL. Honestly, a few hours out, does wonders, so refreshing. Meanwhile, take it by faith, God sees, and you will be rewarded. Try praying to Him, if you haven't...and keep it up! I feel for you....Linda