Hi @jo2010, I'm glad that you came back to share how another member's post made you feel. You are quite right that discussion forums have limitations. We only have words, and sometimes images, to demonstrate empathetic listening. We can't see body language, which is so important in human connection and interaction. But the online communication has benefits too, especially for introverts or when it is difficult to find someone nearby who understands.

Thank you for taking the time to review Gemmax posting history and to recognize that she is a frequent post-er, and an empathetic and supportive person. At the risk of speaking on her behalf, I interpreted her phrase "I wouldn’t even consider quoting platitudes to you." to mean that she recognized that Parus and anyone who is suffering from past and present injustices deserves more than platitudes, and not as a reflection of something you shared with Parus to support her.

I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your job. I admire your strength in returning to Connect at this particularly vulnerable time and encourage you to give the members and the community another chance.

Hello @jo2010

I also want to thank you for your post. I agree with Colleen that online support groups do have their advantages and disadvantages. Your post reflected that understanding. I hope that after some time, you will feel comfortable about returning to Connect. We appreciate each of our Members as they express their thoughts and feelings and you are certainly welcome to post whenever you feel like coming back.

I also want to wish you well as you seek new employment. I know how difficult that can be. I wish you well and do look forward to hearing from you again in the future.

Teresa