@hogan_g1937, I care and I am concerned about you, too. My husband has told me that he always wished there was someone he could talk to during his caregiving time. You do not have to do this alone.

Have you looked at the Pre-transplant caregiver discussion that Colleen referred to? I think you will find some peace and companionship within that conversation with others who are currently care-giving for their pre transplant loved ones.
Click. Read, Join the conversation.
If you want to direct your response to a particular individual: Copy and Paste their @name and they just like I did yours.
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/are-there-any-other-pre-liver-transplant-caregivers-out-there/
I also want to share our Caregiver Discussion Group where our mentor @IndianaScott will be there to meet you if you would like that. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/caregivers/

@hogan_g1937, I want to continue this conversation with you. I hope that some of these suggestions will help you along the way.

Take care of yourself, Give your husband a hug. Keep in touch.
Rosemary