Are there any other pre-liver transplant caregivers out there?
Hi,
I'm JoDee and my husband is on the registry waiting for a liver transplant. I'm feeling stressed and would love to have someone to talk to that gets what is going on with us. We live 5 hours from Rochester, so I can't attend any of the support groups there and there aren't any near us. Any suggestions?
Thank you!
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Caregiver is a difficult job! Make sure to give yourself some "me" time with friends, soaking bath or reading a book. You have to go through EVERYTHING your husband is going through, PLUS you are responsible for all of the medications, you have have to learn new terminology, you have to talk to the doctors, you have to be the advocate, the list goes on and on. Keep reaching out to find a caregiver buddy to lean on when you need it! You're doing a great job!
@newlifesociety, Thank you for sharing these good suggestions!
I want to add: As a caregiver, you will be taught and coached right along with your patient recipient about each detail that you will need to know. When I had my transplant, the transplant nurses taught us in the hospital as I recovered. It was a very complete and organized pre-discharge process. Then after discharge, we were assigned a post transplant nurse, who prepared us for a return to our home. I don't know if all transplant programs are this well organized. I transplanted at Mayo Rochester
Rosemary
@28snash, I'm sending my love to you and your husband. I wish you both continued strength as you continue toward transplant. When we were going thru the beginning process, and confused and frightened my doctor told me the following : "Think of it in terms of when you are getting ready to go on a big trip or a vacation. You have to pack your suitcases, and then loading everything in the van (he said station wagon) so that you will be ready to pull out of the driveway first thing in the morning." I always liked that image. I think you are doing a good job of planning and packing!
Keep in touch.
Rosemary
Thanks so much I truly appreciate it!
Hi JoDee. I'm Andrea. My husband is currently inpatient at Methodist. We are very close to being put on the transplant list. He was admitted here Thursday night due to taking a bad turn in his health status. We live in the Northwest metro, about 2 hours from Rochester.
@marynlogan, Welcome to Mayo Connect.
Andrea, my name is Rosemary. I will be thinking of you and your husband. From my own experience and time spent in Mayo Methodist, I know that he is getting excellent care. I went thru my pre-transplant evaluation while I was an inpatient there.
I am a liver/kidney recipient, and I am available on Connect anytime if you need anyone to talk to, or have any questions. You can also send a Private message by clicking on the envelope on top right of this page.
Hugs and Hope,
Rosemary
Hi Andrea @marynlogan
Just wanted to add my welcome and let you know that we're thinking of you and your husband as you wait. As Rosemary said, ask us anything. We're also here if you just want to talk to someone. All the best. Colleen
@28snash Sorry I've been MIA recently, we got to go babysit our grandson for the weekend! 🙂
I'm also a planner so the waiting is making me crazy. I compare it to waiting for a baby to be born, but you don't have a due date! Lol I'm glad you found a reasonable priced place to rent. We have 2 dogs, but are lucky to have friends and family that will care for them for us. I'll keep you up to date of any new news!
@rosemarya I have yet to have a bag packed, but I do have lists on the bulletin board. We went to our daughter and son-in-laws to babysit over the weekend and we did pack extra with us in case we got the call while we were there. I realized over the weekend that I can't make trips to see my family unless my husband wants to come along because it would take to long for me to get home, get him and then get to Mayo. That saddened me, but I know it's only for the short term.
We will get through this one day at a time!
@newlifesociety I am still looking for my caregiver buddy. I am going to ask a woman I know out for coffee or supper this week!