We had a 'soft' fall today

Posted by purpledragon @purpledragon, 2 days ago

I am a caregiver to my partner supporting her through her struggles. I take her weekdays to paddle laps at the pool. Getting out of the pool today her right leg failed to support her, and, struggling against me, 'slid' to the ground. The lifeguard and others ran to help, but even with them, we struggled to get her up into the wheel chair. Luckily no harm done. We will try the lift next time.

I've been tending to her for years, and it's reaching a point I may need assistance. As long as she can get out of bed and dress on her own, and get to and from the bathroom, I can handle it (although the psychological stress is high).

I guess there's not to much to say but stick with it. I know people here struggle with similar and worse issues. I'm trying to brace myself and prepare for if/when it gets worse. Thank you for listening, I needed to vent a little bit, I have no real social circle.

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anniewee, Thank you for the follow up. Glad to know that you're considering having some support. It will be a benefit to both of you, I'm sure. As to VA Community Care, I'm currently taking PT under that program. They do a good job.

All the best to you, hopefully things work out in your favor.

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