@leslieherbert adding to my own thoughts…. I try to remember that my husband would never want me to spend my life being sad, frustrated, and bitter. This also helps me when I grieve over my parents deaths in 2022. So when I feel down, I do everything possible to take a break from the situation and focus on something else. I’m learning to savor little moments alone in nature. Or in a good book. We can’t control what’s happening to our loved ones, we can only cope and find ways to escape and live a bit.. even if it’s just an hour.