Traumatic Brain Injury: Come introduce yourself

Welcome to the Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people who know first-hand about living with a traumatic brain injury. Together we can learn from each other and share stories about challenges and triumphs, setbacks and the things that help.

Pull up a chair and connect. Why not start by introducing yourself? What is your experience? Got a question, tip or story to share?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) Support Group.

Profile picture for danieltbi @danieltbi

Hello, I'm Dan, recently released from a long period in hospital ICU and rehab. I've had a massive TBI, my new journey is horrifying me a lot. I feel like I'm mourning who I was, I'm surrounded by an overwhelming emotional feeling of doom.

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@danieltbi there is no reason to feel doom. My TBI happened 23 years ago. Needed speech, physical and occupational therapy for the first year, after that it was, and still is, my own-self therapy. I think I'm still recovering, because I notice gains quite often. Don't worry about the "new" normal, have it become the "current" normal. There is no calendar for when to expect this or that to happen, recovery is a life time process. As long as you believe in yourself, the injury will not be able to define you.

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Profile picture for hevykevy @hevykevy

Hi All. Kevin here from Grand Marais. Good to chat this morning with others who know what it is like.
My experience is chainsaw/tree related. I am told that a branch bounced up and hit me. I remember starting to cut the branch, then woke up 6 hrs. later in a HCMC. Thankfully I was not home when it happened as I'm 2 hrs. from the nearest trauma center. Both bones in my left forearm and both jaws broken in addition to the TBI. Why is a 66 year old guy running a chainsaw? Because I can. I finally bought a replacement last week, It got wrecked too.
I feel fortunate because even though "full" recovery is still a long way off, I can do most anything I want to do. I went roller blading about a month ago and I have bought my season pass for Lutsen Ski Area. I can't do anything as fast as I used to, But I can do it!
Hopefully you all will too.

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@hevykevy You're an amazing man, you've been through a lot, I've a compassionate respect toward your difficult journey. My journey has been extremely similar. We'll get through fine. Thank you for sharing your story.

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Has anyone ever heard of normal pressure hydrocephalus
I had a Brain injury a year ago and suddenly the other day I couldn't walk very well although my walking hasn't been perfect for the whole year at the ER they told me I might need a shunt to drain a bit of fluid off the brain area
Very routine now I guess but I'm still nervous I haven't heard from the neurologist yet and who knows when I'll get an appointment to have it done if I need it done. But just wondered if anybody else has had this done.

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I passed out and hit back of head on kitchen tile. When I opened my eyes everything was spinning so bad and fast. Jumped into bed slept till morning then went to ER For cat scan. Said it could be ears. Gave me dizzy pills no relief. 2 days later went to ER With MRI SAME. Went to Neurologist neither the ER or Neurologist looked at my head. Neurologist sent me for neuropathy test. His notes only one said post concussion symptoms. Went to pcp he felt head lumps. Very big and had water. So now I suffer from extreme headaches, dizzyness and unbalanced. I sleep alot. Do not know what to do now.

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Profile picture for luckylizardlady @luckylizardlady

I am Rebecca. I chose my user name because I am the proud owner of 5 lizards. All of which I ended up finding for free. I have 2 bearded dragons and 3 different species of geckos (crested, leopard and African Fat Tail).

I also own 2 dogs. One of which was born with cerebellar hypoplasia meaning her cerebellum was underdeveloped at birth. I got her a month before my accident and it has been helpful. She is a normal dog other than she has the worst balance and coordination ever and has limited peripheral vision. Sound familiar?! 😁 She is my brain damaged puppy. I have even walked like this goofy mutt early in my recovery. If you search Lady Lacroix on Facebook you should be able to find her Facebook page.

Anyway, little background on me.... I have had numerous accidents over the past 30 yrs. The last one 16 mos ago has changed my life entirely. I rear ended someone after work one day.... Overly tired and shouldn't have been driving. So feel stupid sometimes that it was my stupid neglect that caused my issues.... But I have accepted it now and this is just me now. Waiting for my disability appeal to go thru. 👍

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@luckylizardlady My name is Mary Agnes, I live in Melbourne, FL and I was hit by car in 1969. I was 18 and stepped off a curb into the street. I had been married only 2 days. I had very loosely tied my tiny dog to a bush and went into Mr. Donut to get my hours for the week and turned to leave and watched my little dog get hit by a car. I ran to get to her and was hit by a 2nd car in the outside lane right next to the one that struck her. Missy died. The guilt is forever in my head but I had to compartmentalize or we would both be dead. In my life I have had several little dogs and taught them to love everyone and hopefully they have joyfully given comfort to many and made a few moments of someone's life happier. I went on to be a teacher. There is so much need and we get so much back when we volunteer for things that make us smile. I had to learn not to give my guilt the floor. Instead, I had to turn my self around. Over the years, I filled my time doing things that bring smiles to others every chance I get. It works. One of the most overlooked things about recovery is learning to love yourself again.

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Profile picture for Randy Shields @randallshields56

First off welcome to the group here at Mayo clinic connect, sorry that this is the way to meet, and that you had a TBI incident, my prayers go out to you and sending one now , actually a long prayer for you============================= Sent! i know that things happen for a reason, i believe in angels, actually mine is Richard. I also believe in miracles and ghosts. with that out of the way we both have similar issues, Balance, memory and thyroid. my injury was a brain tumor that dropped me in my tracks a couple times. my angel Richard tried to tell me a couple of times but you know men in general- hard headed and stubborn. so if you have questions you have come to the right site. i went through some tests yesterday. 6 month ones. my daughter will get up with the doctor Monday to find out what's next some of the tests didn't turn out as i expected. hope you have a blessed day. need anything just ask.

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@randallshields56 thank you for your welcome and I pray as well and I will.pray for you and your family.

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Profile picture for margaretallen @margaretallen

Has anyone ever heard of normal pressure hydrocephalus
I had a Brain injury a year ago and suddenly the other day I couldn't walk very well although my walking hasn't been perfect for the whole year at the ER they told me I might need a shunt to drain a bit of fluid off the brain area
Very routine now I guess but I'm still nervous I haven't heard from the neurologist yet and who knows when I'll get an appointment to have it done if I need it done. But just wondered if anybody else has had this done.

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@margaretallen You sound scared and it is only normal for you to feel so. Something that may help you is to write down the questions you have for the doctor so that you feel like you have a grasp on the diagnosis as it is determined. I am sorry you are going through this. Brain injury is complex and your Neurologist will know the options that will make you feel much better. I hope you have someone that will walk beside you during this time.

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Profile picture for barbeok70 @barbeok70

I passed out and hit back of head on kitchen tile. When I opened my eyes everything was spinning so bad and fast. Jumped into bed slept till morning then went to ER For cat scan. Said it could be ears. Gave me dizzy pills no relief. 2 days later went to ER With MRI SAME. Went to Neurologist neither the ER or Neurologist looked at my head. Neurologist sent me for neuropathy test. His notes only one said post concussion symptoms. Went to pcp he felt head lumps. Very big and had water. So now I suffer from extreme headaches, dizzyness and unbalanced. I sleep alot. Do not know what to do now.

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@barbeok70 Wow, you must be so frustrated. May I suggest that you go to your PCP and ask for some referrals based on the sequence of events and where you are now. The answers you have seem to have are incomplete and it is more safe to be sure. Let your PCP know you need help, ask for a referral back to a Neurologist and possibly citing the time you passed out and hit your head and the ensuing symptoms lumps on head with possible fluid, the headaches, dizziness and problems with balance. Ask the neurologist to refer you to a vestibular specialist for the balance issues. Additionally, you may need a referral to a cardiologist to rule out cardiology issues that may have contributed to passing out. Write up a simple bulleted list of the sequence of events and doctors seen, test done and where you are now. I think this go around, you will have answers, treatment, and confidence in your medical team. You are worth the effort. This is just a suggestion.

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Profile picture for maryagneso @maryagneso

@margaretallen You sound scared and it is only normal for you to feel so. Something that may help you is to write down the questions you have for the doctor so that you feel like you have a grasp on the diagnosis as it is determined. I am sorry you are going through this. Brain injury is complex and your Neurologist will know the options that will make you feel much better. I hope you have someone that will walk beside you during this time.

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@maryagneits not an emergency so that's good. I'm having an MRI to see things more clearly but not til Jan 27th. And a neurologist
T but that could be 3 months too. The fluid is likely minor and slow moving too.

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Profile picture for margaretallen @margaretallen

@maryagneits not an emergency so that's good. I'm having an MRI to see things more clearly but not til Jan 27th. And a neurologist
T but that could be 3 months too. The fluid is likely minor and slow moving too.

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@margaretallen and everything else checked out fine. Healthy heart and bloodwork

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