I think I have PMR and I’m terrified

Posted by martyn @martyn, 5 days ago

I’m new on here because I guess I’m desperately seeking some comfort. I’m 58, active, keen cyclist doing 100 miles a week and live tennis. Then , five weeks ago I started the excruciating arm and shoulder pains. Did not even know what PMR was then and still didn’t really think I had PMR even when a friend told me to read up about it. I just thought it was some nerve issue.. anyway, long story short, went to rheumatologist today and he said 90% it’s PMR and will do the steroid test over next 4 days to get a confirmed diagnosis.
I’ve spent all night reading about this horrible condition and I’m filled with dread and a little despair. I have been very touched by reading some of the testimonies on this forum and I guess I’m just looking for some positive thoughts as I set out on this PMR journey that until a few weeks ago I never even imagined. I feel so stuck because I know the morning pain (which eases by afternoon but never goes away) is totally debilitating but I’m also very concerned about the side effects of the corticosteroids. Has anyone tried to battle it without taking the drugs? And if I have to take the steroids how bad are the side effects? I feel in a very dark place and feel as though I’ve suddenly gone from being a fit and young at heart 50 something to old age in a heartbeat :..
I’m sure once this settles in I’ll get to grips with it as I’ve managed some pretty tough times with a back surgery that went wrong but this feels so unknown and sinister. Apologies for being on the side of melodramatic but any positivity anyone whom is dealing with PMR can send my way would be very welcome… take care of yourselves
Martyn

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@jeff97 @dadcue my rheumatologist is very positive and made me reassured today. His plan is 15mg for one week, the. 12.5mg for one week and then down to 10 for one month and then hopefully take it down 1mg every 2 weeks or so. Does that seem sensible to you ? I asked about the adrenal gland today and he said there’s no hard and fast rule about when that fully fires up again but can already start even on a low dose of Pred. He also advised that riding my the bike would be beneficial within reason and to stay as active as I feel comfortable with. Staying optimistic and realistic !! Thanks for connecting

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@martyn

Sounds sensible to me. I hope the plan works well for you.

There isn't any single correct way that works for everyone. There are many ways that are tried but research has shown there is no method of tapering off prednisone that works for everyone. The taper you do should be individualized to you.


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The adrenal problem comes into play later on. Things might become more complicated if you flare at 7 mg or so but maybe that won't happen.

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@jeff97 @dadcue my rheumatologist is very positive and made me reassured today. His plan is 15mg for one week, the. 12.5mg for one week and then down to 10 for one month and then hopefully take it down 1mg every 2 weeks or so. Does that seem sensible to you ? I asked about the adrenal gland today and he said there’s no hard and fast rule about when that fully fires up again but can already start even on a low dose of Pred. He also advised that riding my the bike would be beneficial within reason and to stay as active as I feel comfortable with. Staying optimistic and realistic !! Thanks for connecting

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@martyn That seems pretty aggressive to me. My taper was pretty similar to your plan, except I was on 15 and 12.5 for 2 weeks, and then on 10 for 4 weeks, and then taper 1 mg every 2 weeks down to 5. But the difference between us is that I had already been on Actemra for several months before I got to 15. So my PMR and GCA were under control by the Actemra, and I just needed to taper off of prednisone gradually to avoid adrenal and prednisone withdrawal problems. My rheumatologist only had me step down in either 2 or 4 week blocks.

Maybe your rheumatologist's plan will work ok. Hopefully you can taper slowly enough that you don't overshoot your lowest effective dose by a big margin and have a bad flare. I think you should plan on being on prednisone for at least a year or two, so you need to find lowest dose that controls your symptoms and stay there for an extended time.

People vary in how much discomfort they are willing to put up with. My symptoms were totally controlled, but that was important since I have GCA and PMR. Some people with PMR prefer a lower dose of prednisone and accept some level of continuing PMR symptoms.

It's good your doctor supports your cycling. Like I said, I was active all during my illness and treatment, and it made the experience much easier to bear.

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@kjoed53 sorry for such a late reply but was overwhelmed with amazing messages. Your support means a great deal and this week is ending so much better than it started .
Thanks 🙏

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@martyn
Don't worry about late replies. You get a lot of advice and support here and it's difficult to reply to everyone when you have so much going on with your health. It's overwhelming when you first get your diagnosis but you are on a journey that many of us are also on, and we have one common set of goals...be pain free, be meds free and return to normalcy. Don't ever forget that we are all at different stages but one in spirit.

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Martyn, pls keep in mind that before you taper……best you want to be PAIN FREE for 1-2 weeks. Reminder, you don’t want to go “up”/backwards.

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I felt the extreme and debilitating PMR pain in January 2025 but wasn’t diagnosed until May that year. I thought I had hurt my lower back somehow. I was prescribed 15 mgs of Prednisone and tapered slowly for the next year. The Prednisone kept the pain at bay and I functioned normally except that I was tired every afternoon - and because of that malaise, was not able to exercise regularly— and did add 15 lbs. It’s now August 2026 and I finally feel myself again! There is stiffness if I sit or lie for long periods of time but it goes away in about 5 or 10 minutes. I am exercising again, losing that weight gain, and feeling clear-headed. I guess this is remission, but I wanted to give hope to those just learning about this condition. It was a sleepy and lonely year - I call it my “lost year” - but now that I am feeling better, I want to help others get through it. I am 66 years old.

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@boomerlib your time frame fits mine. Now 73 & am going for a taper of 1 alternating w/1.5 this coming week. Have been doing really slow tapers. I do feel a bit of the bilateral hip pain esp when sitting! So it reminds me to get up!
I do try to walk everyday. A lot of 2+ miles in morning then again 2-3 miles in evening. Mentally healthy for me.
I see rheumatoid guy in December to check lab numbers. Maybe I’ll be off pred by then. I am also on methotrexate & rheumatoid guy says typically one stays on it for 6 mo after ending prednisone! I want off that stuff too!

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@boomerlib your time frame fits mine. Now 73 & am going for a taper of 1 alternating w/1.5 this coming week. Have been doing really slow tapers. I do feel a bit of the bilateral hip pain esp when sitting! So it reminds me to get up!
I do try to walk everyday. A lot of 2+ miles in morning then again 2-3 miles in evening. Mentally healthy for me.
I see rheumatoid guy in December to check lab numbers. Maybe I’ll be off pred by then. I am also on methotrexate & rheumatoid guy says typically one stays on it for 6 mo after ending prednisone! I want off that stuff too!

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@kare1 My brother-in-law has been taking methotrexate 14 years to control his PMR. He has tried stopping it several times, and the PMR has always come back. He's happy with it because he's able to keep playing tennis. He's almost 78. He doesn't like needles, so he's not interested in a biologic.

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@kare1 My brother-in-law has been taking methotrexate 14 years to control his PMR. He has tried stopping it several times, and the PMR has always come back. He's happy with it because he's able to keep playing tennis. He's almost 78. He doesn't like needles, so he's not interested in a biologic.

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@jeff97 ohhhh so what are the side effects of metho for him? Anything serious? I should google it.
My pride gets in my head about drugs but I’ll do what is necessary to keep moving!!
I did walk 2 miles just now. It’s hot in our Midwest & will get worse the coming week!

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@jeff97 ohhhh so what are the side effects of metho for him? Anything serious? I should google it.
My pride gets in my head about drugs but I’ll do what is necessary to keep moving!!
I did walk 2 miles just now. It’s hot in our Midwest & will get worse the coming week!

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@kare1 He has never said much about side effects, but last year he developed fungal pneumonia. That was a difficult illness for him. It took a long time to get a diagnosis, because I don't think doctors see many cases of it now. An infectious disease specialist diagnosed it. He recovered ok after being treated with heavy doses of antibiotics. They had to discontinue the methotrexate while he was being treated, so he had to go back on prednisone during that time.

I live in the Raleigh area of NC. We've had a break from the heat for the past week or so, but the upcoming week will be hot and humid. I do my outdoor exercise mostly before sunrise.

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Yea NC! (I moved from Charlotte to IN, crazy) but I will just go to Y inside to walk about. Keep on moving is important w/this chronic condition

And I’ll keep an eye out on methotrexate. Most folks on this site are doing the biologics now. My rheumatologist never mentioned them.

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@jeff97 @dadcue my rheumatologist is very positive and made me reassured today. His plan is 15mg for one week, the. 12.5mg for one week and then down to 10 for one month and then hopefully take it down 1mg every 2 weeks or so. Does that seem sensible to you ? I asked about the adrenal gland today and he said there’s no hard and fast rule about when that fully fires up again but can already start even on a low dose of Pred. He also advised that riding my the bike would be beneficial within reason and to stay as active as I feel comfortable with. Staying optimistic and realistic !! Thanks for connecting

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@martyn
Your body will let you know how sensible it is. If you have initial increase in pain at a decrease, give it a few days to see if it subsides. If it does, then you're okay. If it doesn't, then listen to your body.

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