Member Neuropathy Journey Stories: What's Yours?
This discussion was created as a place for members to share their journey with neuropathy. This will allow members to easily learn from each other what has helped them and hopefully help new members avoid some of the painful and difficult struggles some of us have faced. The following is a suggested outline for sharing your story that would be helpful for other members for comparison to their own neuropathy story.
— When did your neuropathy start? What were the symptoms? When and how was it diagnosed?
— What treatments or medications have you tried?
— What side effects have you had, if any?
Optional:
— What would you tell your best friend if they told you they had neuropathy?
— What activities have you had to give up because of neuropathy? What do you instead?
— How has your life changed socially? at work? at home?
What's your neuropathy story?
Note: If you want to ask a question for another member who has posted their neuropathy story here in this discussion, be sure to add their @membername in your post, for example @johnbishop. Your question may already be discussed in other neuropathy discussions. Be sure to check here first: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/neuropathy/ That way this discussion can be reserved for member neuropathy stories and hopefully make it easier to read and find similar symptoms to your own.
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I never had a bunionectomy. My neuropathy is from celiac disease. However, my shin shave biopsy procedure has given me enough grief. My neighbor had a bunionectomy and suffered pain and numbness. My dermatologist never bothered to explain the risks of the shave surgery I underwent. The practice of medicine has apparently been transformed to one that is not considerate of patient outcomes or concerns.
Here is my member journey story
I was diagnosed with stomach cancer in July 2021 I received 8 rounds of FOFOX Chemotherapy at Sloan Kettering which included Oxyplatin as part of the regimen Not one word from Sloan about neuropathy
That was followed by full gastrectomy Surgery was a success as was the chemo treatment as I am still in remission today
Throughout the 8 rounds of chemo, Sloan would ask me about any numbness or tingling in my feet or hands to which I replied each time, no
About one month after the last treatment sure enough I started feeling numbness and pain in my feet and was told it was a result of the chemo
Fast forward 5 years almost and have been living with this constant pain ever since
I have tried all meds including gaba, cymbalta, Lyrica, Low Dose Naltrexone
Also tried accupuncture, Calmare Scrambler, Ketamine infusions, steroid injections, Capsascin patches, lidocaine patches, etc
Not to mention ketamine compound cream, various other creams and salves, etc
Not one of these has offered any kind of relief I am Very happy for those out there that report improvement from some of this stuff which only makes me feel like an outlier of sorts
Why hasn’t any of this helped me with this ever present suffering? Is there something I’m doing wrong or missing out on?
The things that do help are being engaged in things that I enjoy which distract me so much that say two hours later I realized that I just had two hours of relief
That includes pick up softball, weekly golfing, spending time with friends and family, But I can’t be distracted 24/7
One last thing that has helped is coming to accept that this is the new normal for me A therapist likened it to being in a tug of war that I can’t win Pain is on one side of the rope and I’m on the other and it’s time to just drop the rope and accept I will never win I can however as I said finally accept this new way of life, continue to keep an open mind about something that might help and try and live life to the fullest at 71 years of age
Oh yes and count the blessings in my life, keep a positive attitude and have gratitude that I am still here Sometimes easier said than done
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1 Reaction@jnemeth1214, Thank you for sharing your neuropathy journey. Sorry to hear that you haven't found much that provides any relief. I know you're not alone. While my neuropathy is not from chemo, I found this site when I was searching for anything that might help the progression or the numbness and tingling I have in my feet and legs. I'm pretty much in the same boat and like you it does help to live as well as you can with the condition and stay positive.
Not sure if you are familiar with the Foundation for Peripheral Neuropathy but thought you might like to see what is on their site related to chemo induced neuropathy - https://www.foundationforpn.org/. They also have a YouTube channel where they keep all of their webinars that you might find helpful - https://www.youtube.com/@foundationforperipheralneu4122/search
@johnbishop thanks so much for your reply I do know about The Foundation and their webinars and have taken advantage of both
It helps to know that I am not alone
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1 Reaction@jnemeth1214 I felt as you did when my neuropathy started and through trial and error found that 300mg Gaba 4x/day spaced every six hours and 75mg Amitriptyline seem to work best. Mama Bear Oasis cream massaged into the painful areas feels pleasant. Like you, distraction with activities that bring pleasure has helped.
My pain specialist said that there are about five medications specifically for neuropathy will likely be approved in the next two years. The prospect of this brings me great comfort and I hope it will for you too.
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1 Reaction@cecelia19 Thank you for your reply and sense of hope Helps not to feel alone
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1 ReactionFor two years now i am diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy, secondary to diabetes; and to add to the excitement i have a compartment syndrome in my left hand. I do not have to describe the sleepless night caused by pain. i have tried the most awful medication invented by men, Celexa. I had to discontinue it. yes it took away the pain but it made me sleep 12 hours and i could barely walk the next day as i was dangerously unsteady on my feet and very groggy. i was tried on gabapentin which at time works well but after a day of more than 500 steps, yhe pain is uncontrolable and sleep may come around 4 or 5 a m. i tried accupuncture five times. Every night i experience less pain and on 2 occasions i had no pain at all during yhe evening and night. it was like a miracle. But the effect only lasted one day. It means I would have to have accupuncture seddions daily which is very impracticable. I just wanted to add this to tell people that there is hope. Even now in some hospitals research is done by stimulating directly fibres of the spinal cord and results are hopeful.
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5 ReactionsI have had symptoms of PN since I was probably in my 40's but didn't recognize it. I'm 80 now and it's quite noticeable. I have taken berries that are encapsulated from Juice Plus for years. It's amazing to me that the berries have kept my circulation going in my legs and feet. A few months ago I added Dynamic Nerve from Stonehenge when I noticed that I needed more than just the berries. I didn't have any pain until I forgot the Dynamic Nerve. Now I know what people mean when they talk about PN pain in the legs and feet. At this point I don't need to take the Dynamic Nerve more than once a day, I would if I could remember.
I do take 4 capsules of the JP berries each day.
I'm hypoglycemic. My body makes too much insulin when I have carbs or sugar, so I work at eating a low carb and sugar free diet. They have concluded that too much insulin is one cause of PN. It looks like it's inherited in our family, my older brother's legs and feet are numb.
Hello @torojolt, I would like to add my welcome to Connect along with @katherinac and others. You will notice that we merged your post with an existing discussion so that you could meet and read the neuropathy journeys of other members. If you click the link below, it will take you to the beginning of the discussion where you will also find my neuropathy story.
-- Member Neuropathy Journey Stories: What's Yours?: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/member-neuoropathy-journey-stories-whats-yours/
The Neuropathy Support group here on Connect has many different discussions on neuropathy in case you want to scan through them or search for what others have shared helps them. Here's a link to the discussion list of the group - https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/neuropathy/.
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