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Earliest signs of decline?

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@judimahoney
Hello Judi,
Thank you for sharing this. I also noticed and continue to observe very “self-involved” behaviors. I do understand that it comes from a place of needing to control “what’s left”. Of course it must be very frightening to feel so lost, so focusing on what they can (themselves) probably is a way of self-soothing. I do have a lot of compassion, but I just wish she had let us know early on. A family friend told me she knew about a diagnosis years ago.

It might’ve helped us navigate this better. Or maybe not.

Gotta take the small wins. For example, I found a dry shampoo that works wonders on her hair (she’s bathing resistant).

Sending you lots of supportive energy and hugs. 🤗

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@gratia
And my husband also has anosognosia, so he doesn't know what he's lost (no self awareness). I guess this is a blessing? 🤔

@gratia Yes, finding joy in the little things......and finding dry shampoo that works wonders. You hit a home run for you and Mom.
Best, Karla (your nature shots are just beautiful)

@gratia Great idea about using dry shampoo. What brand is it?